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Bricks Not Books
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It was really nice @beanielou and probably made nicer because I had no time to plan anything so it was all spontaneous. Just needed to make sure he sat on the potty before we went out

Did an OP of £4.52 after the Waitrose shop
I have booked the Christmas fair tickets for me and my Mum, and tonight I'll check my online banking and if I feel rich enough I'll book the Christmas activity for us and DS. If I don't feel rich enough it can wait until Monday, when I get paid.
I popped to Tesco while Mr VH fed DS his lunch. Found a packet of duck breasts yellowstickered to under £5! Couldn't leave them behind so they're now in the fridge. I think there's now 3 packs lurking in the drawers, we'll definitely use one at Christmas, might use another during my birthday week and save the third for when we need a treat/pick us up.
I also checked with the nursery manager and it's fine to do a small gift for the nursery staff so we'll go ahead with the hot drinks and nibbles idea. I got some Jacobs chili crackers in Tesco that were on Clubcard offer, we'll see what else I can find that's also on offer during the next few weeks.
I'm feeling hormonal today and DS has been in a fretful mood so neither of us were at our best this morning. Going to try putting a movie on for us this afternoon (possibly Frozen again, if he picks it) and see if we can reset to our usual cheerful selves. He made a "get well soon" card for Mr VH at nursery on Thursday, and also had a little climb of a tree when the staff took them out for a walk. He also slipped over and banged his head on Friday so we have yet another bruise, although at least it's smaller than previous ones.
Dinner tonight is the reduced beef I got on Monday. There's a pile of peeled and diced potatoes sitting in water, we have yorkshire puddings and some chunky veg, so a few small slices of beef will be appreciated but if we're stuffed with carbs then the rest of the protein can go in the freezer.
Have a good week everyone!"You won't bloom until you're planted" - Graffiti spotted in Newcastle.
Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind - Doctor Who
Total mortgage overpayments 2017 - 2024 - £8945.62!8 -
Total OPs for October - £42.15
I am £63 off my target of OPing £400 this year, which looks like an achievable amount to cover in November and December. But of course we're now approaching the festive season when money goes out quite quickly, so we shall see.
The tickets for the Christmas event for DS have been booked. They're more than last year as DS is now too old to qualify for a free ticket, might give it a miss next year unless he's still keen on the show involved. Last year there was also a themed gift shop on site so we might be able to get him one or two last-minute gifts there. I still need to get him a little chocolate teddy from M&S but otherwise I think I might be done with his Christmas buying. I bought the last gift last night, John Lewis have a wooden "car transporter" truck in their toy sale and TCB had £2 cashback with a purchase of £10. So I bought a John Lewis giftcard and used that to pay for the truck, it was originally £20 but with the sale and the cashback it was £15.34. I have also bought him a jigsaw puzzle off Vinted, still waiting for that to arrive.
Keeping up with the Christmas theme, I bought some nice sachets of instant coffee as they were on offer in Waitrose, so they'll go in the nursery hamper.
But before Christmas I have my birthday and now that we have entered my birthday month the freebies will start to roll in. M&S have already emailed me to let me know my birthday Sparks offer is available - a packet of free biscuits or a packet of free grapes. A terribly hard decision but I think I might just go with the biscuits. There will be a lot of sweet treats this month so depending on the biscuit I might put them in the nursery hamper or in DH's hamper. I'll have to see what's available in the store.
I have mentally allotted myself £200 to spend on myself guilt-free for my birthday. That does not include the cost of my dentist trip because that's not a birthday treat, that's an "I'm off work anyway so might as well use up a day of annual leave" practicality. Most of it will probably go on petrol and lunches out and about but there might be a few charity shop bargains as well, depending on what I spot. Me and Mr VH will have a day trip together, I have another day out for myself planned, and I've got the Christmas fair I'm attending with Mum.
Today we went to a book fair and bought a few bargains, including some things for DS. On the way home he was dangerously close to having a pre-nap car sleep so we stopped off at Waitrose and took him into the cafe. He was very well behaved, happily ate a cheese sandwich and a packet of "veggies sticks", and in the end didn't fall asleep for the last part of the journey so he's had a proper nap in his cot. I will go and wake him up momentarily.
Dinner tonight is chicken and parma ham pasta
Have a good weekend everyone! "You won't bloom until you're planted" - Graffiti spotted in Newcastle.
Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind - Doctor Who
Total mortgage overpayments 2017 - 2024 - £8945.62!5 -
£4.06 TT just sent to the mortgage.
Birthday has been and gone. I am now in a new decade. Thoroughly spoiled by Mr VH and the family. Books, a new scarf, some pretty jewellery, and some chocolate that I'm going to try to make last until Christmas (aided by the additional purchase of some delicious fudge).
I got my free M&S biscuits. I have yet to collect my free sweet treats from Hotel Chocolat, Costa, and Greggs, but they'll be sorted out this week. More Christmas gifts have been purchased, specifically some artisinal food bits for Mr VH's hamper. I also got a book for DS's birthday. Charity shops were perused but not much bought, just a few second hand books for DS. I also got a Thomas the Tank Engine one for free from the nursery swap box, which he's very happy about.
My parents gifted me some birthday money as well. I have marked my landmark with a pretty silver ring, and I'm planning on buying a new notebook for myself from a nice stationery company that I already got two from previously (one as a Christmas gift from parents and one as a gift from Mr VH). The paper is lovely, smooth and very thick, and you can get a little foil symbol stamped on the front, or your name if inclined. They normally do a little January sale so I'll wait for that before making my choice.
Oh and the dentist was fine. The sensitive tooth is still sensitive but not as much as it used to be. After an x-ray and much poking and prodding the dentist declared it was probably concussed and advised I be a bit more consistant with the sensitive toothpaste, so that's what I've done.
No plans on baking this weekend as I've been very indulgent and with cake freebies still pending I do not need to make a lemon drizzle. But I have done a freezer inventory (why is is so full when I don't have much batch cooked food in it? XD) and cleaned out the fridge.
Dinner tonight is toad in the hole. I am genuinely excited for the approaching very chilly weather this week, if I had more time after work and nursery run I'd absolutely do a mid-week frozen weather toad instead, but I'll settle for "it's damp and cold and rained all day yesterday" toad instead.
Have a good weekend everyone!"You won't bloom until you're planted" - Graffiti spotted in Newcastle.
Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind - Doctor Who
Total mortgage overpayments 2017 - 2024 - £8945.62!4 -
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