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Parents spent my inheritance...
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The estrangement related to the daughter leaving home at 17 to move in with a man, whom she then married and had five kids with.
True, but 17 year olds do stupid things, and a parent would need a very cold heart to cut a daughter and her grandchildren out of her life forever, and it sounds like she died a bitter and lonely old woman.
Not that any of this has any relevance to the OPs case which seems an open and shut case of dodgy parents / trustees misappropriating beneficiaries money.0 -
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Remember it? It's in the Supreme Court at the moment...
https://www.theguardian.com/law/2016/dec/12/charities-in-supreme-court-battle-to-preserve-womans-inheritance
Mother and daughter fell out in 1978, when daughter aged 17, and never reconciled.
Mother died in 2004, left £486k to RSPB, Blue Cross, RSPCA, £0 to daughter.
Daughter awarded £50k in 2007.
Charities appealed, award revoked.
Daughter appealed, awarded £164k in 2015.
Charities appealing again now.
On the surface, it looks like the only winners are the daughters - and I can foresee a Jarndyce-style pyrrhic victory for whichever side wins - but for the charities there's much more at stake, because this is going to be a major precedent.
I hope sense prevails and the charities win.
This is what does my head in, they had a fallen out, and never spoke to each other again, but as soon as Mum dies, Daughter comes sniffing around for money!!0 -
Since OP hasn't seen the will and only thinks she knows what the terms were, there's no point in rubbishing her parents (at least not yet).0
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