Nursery Fees

MrsF34

Luckily this is the only bill he was ever responsible for so can move on. Thanks

powerful_Rogue

So is the £3400 still in the account of has your husband spent it on something else?

MrsF34

It's not gone somewhere through me and while I can now take responsibility for making up the arrears I unfortunately don't have £4K to hand over straight away.

MrsF34

It's not in his account. I think I'm discovering he has a possible gambling problem. The money is gone.

powerful_Rogue

MrsF34 wrote: »

It's not in his account. I think I'm discovering he has a possible gambling problem. The money is gone.

Sorry to hear that MrsF34. Gambling was the first thing that came to mind, but wanted to be tactful and not bring it up.

If it is a gambling addiction, hopefully he will admit it to you and he can then start on a course of recovery.

MrsF34

powerful_Rogue wrote: »

Sorry to hear that MrsF34. Gambling was the first thing that came to mind, but wanted to be tactful and not bring it up.

If it is a gambling addiction, hopefully he will admit it to you and he can then start on a course of recovery.

Thank you. It's the first sign of a gambling problem in the 5 years we have been together but then it's the first time I allowed him to be responsible for a bill. Live and learn. I think I have persuaded him to attend a GA meeting so he can maybe understand that he does have a problem. Anyway thanks

hollydays

Do an experiancheck on yourself and also get him to
Do one and see if he had any credit cards you don't know about . Gamblers are inveterate liars too.