is the only way up?

Tete_en_l'Air

Hi Toile, I don't have any practical advice either but just wanted to say welcome and do keep posting even if you are feeling down because everyone on here is really supportive. Have you posted your SoA yet? If not, do so asap: I've never done one myself (I don't have a lot of outgoings ATM, for me it's a matter of curbing my spending ) but from reading through others' I know that people on here always have loads of great ideas that you'd never think of yourself.
Chin up and best of luck with it, Lucy x

mum2one

Hi.
Hope everything goes ok2ngt, and sens you both big hugs.
From the way youhavespoke about hubby throughout this thread, he sounds like one hell of a guy, and your a lucky lady.

Once everything is out in the open, your feel like a weight has been liftedoff your shoulders
At the end of the day it seems to be youve been robbing peter to pay paul, and in one place, if you were spending £200 a time on shoes ( we all we wish), then maybe he could be a bit annoyed. He may be annoyed, he may be upset, but you sound a very solid couple and your work through it.

Were all here for you x

toile

hi fletch and all, i still havn't managed to tell OH. Got as far as getting him in the barn in the dark but then some friends called round with abottle of wine and to cut a long storey short, OH fell asleep in the chair,so i could'nt wake him and say by the way,forgot to mention this debt, this is almost farcical...i must get a grip on this. Thanks for all your support especially mum2one its priceless.

toile