Mortgage arrears help needed please

superpup

vickaycon wrote: »

thanks for your help I have finally stopped crying (what a baby) and trying to put things right

Aw, bless you! :grouphug:

Everyone on here is so supportive so don't try and handle this alone. You're not a baby, you're struggling and entitled to get upset.

You just need to know exactly what's coming in, what's going out (including irregular payments that don't go out monthly) and work out what the bits you spend here and there add up to.

Good luck
x

vickaycon

Thanks superpup

In_Search_Of_Me

Just caught this & wanted to send a big squidgy hug for you! Go over to old style and get some tips on saving money on food etc and sign up for surveys etc. Can you get any more work elsewhere? I know supermarkets etc do shelf stacking etc - not great dosh but at least its extra for you?
Being in debt is SO hard & you're not a baby for crying - it's a horrible scary place to be and has reduced the majority of us to tears at some point. WHen I had my original lightbulb moment I cried for 2 days!! This site has been a godsend for me & has saved me at my lowest moments because people understand what it feels like and will support you! You get the odd troll (all odd though eh!) but the vast majority are lovely so keep posting & remember that you're most definately not alone!