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If you were me, what would you do?

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  • bouicca21
    bouicca21 Posts: 6,726 Forumite
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    Friends where one partner has limited mobility did an extension and installed a lift as part of it.
  • GaleSF63
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    If you became unable to get upstairs to the bathroom wouldn't that also cut off your access to the bedrooms?

    A stairlift rather than downstairs bath/shower room has the advantage of giving access to the whole of the upstairs.

    I've also seen adverts for lifts that go in the corner of a room - rather more expensive - a great deal more, but not as much as an extension.
  • The "Iron nun" would like a word. 82 years old and still competing in Ironman competitions (thats a 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride, followed by a 26.2 mile run with no break). She only started running at the age of 48. No 50 yr old should be planning for stair lifts for goodness sake. Plan for health, get out, keep yourself fit, utilise those hills that you love to look at.

    So there you go, get yourself a new plan, one that doesn't involve chair lifts.
  • Davesnave
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    edited 13 September 2016 at 9:23AM
    Or the OP could simply accept that at some points in life one has to endure a certain amount of discomfort in order to gain an advantage.

    An extension beyond the existing building could mostly be constructed without disturbances inside, if properly planned and professionally built.
  • Davesnave
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    No 50 yr old should be planning for stair lifts for goodness sake. Plan for health, get out, keep yourself fit, utilise those hills that you love to look at.

    So there you go, get yourself a new plan, one that doesn't involve chair lifts.
    You know the OP personally?

    Of course, in an ideal world people should plan to stay active and implement those plans as fully as possble, but by 50, some people will have a realistic idea of what the future holds for them, and seriously decreasing mobility will be predictable, for some.
  • missbiggles1
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    The "Iron nun" would like a word. 82 years old and still competing in Ironman competitions (thats a 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride, followed by a 26.2 mile run with no break). She only started running at the age of 48. No 50 yr old should be planning for stair lifts for goodness sake. Plan for health, get out, keep yourself fit, utilise those hills that you love to look at.

    So there you go, get yourself a new plan, one that doesn't involve chair lifts.

    And the reason she's newsworthy is because she's exceptional.

    Everybody in their late 50s should be considering their future living arrangements and making plans for the normal progress of life, not assuming they will be immune.
  • SingleSue
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    The "Iron nun" would like a word. 82 years old and still competing in Ironman competitions (thats a 2.4 mile swim, followed by a 112 mile bike ride, followed by a 26.2 mile run with no break). She only started running at the age of 48. No 50 yr old should be planning for stair lifts for goodness sake. Plan for health, get out, keep yourself fit, utilise those hills that you love to look at.

    So there you go, get yourself a new plan, one that doesn't involve chair lifts.

    This 46 year old already is.....unfortunately a connective tissue disorder plus other injuries have robbed me of most of my mobility. No amount of trying to get out and get fit will work.
    We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
    Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.
  • Callie22
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    edited 14 September 2016 at 6:55PM
    It's worth doing a bit of research about stairlifts as your stairs need to be a certain width in order for the lift to be fitted, and there has to be a certain amount of space at the top and bottom so that you can get on and off them safely. We have an elderly family member who is in this position at the moment and we're having to look at other alternatives (possibly a lift, possibly fitting a bathroom downstairs) as the stairs in her terraced house aren't wide enough to fit a stairlift.
  • Argghhh wrote: »
    if you wanted to put a sunroom and wetroom on back of your house - you could book a holiday whilst the worst of it is taking place and come back to it all done?
    happy days then

    Followed by needing another holiday possibly after having sorted out how the workman had bodged things here/done them differently to what OP wanted there etc possibly....:cool:

    Personally, I like to make sure I'm on site when work is being done - because bodging and different decisions to my own are so commonplace by workmen. I've even found that on a recent paint job there is a fair bit of paint splodging at the site of the one bit of the job that I went out during:cool: - but he's pretty much avoided splodging at the bits he did whilst I was in...
  • Davesnave
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    Personally, I like to make sure I'm on site when work is being done - because bodging and different decisions to my own are so commonplace by workmen.....

    Those dashed workmen, eh? ;)

    While I agree that no one needs to be so precious that they take a holiday during a build, the possibility of a tradesperson bodging is very much down to who they are. Some take a pride in both the work and the tidiness of the site, and others don't.

    It's unfair to lump them all in together, and unwise to employ any without prior knowlege of their level of skill and committment.
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