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Major reality check this evening

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  • glentoran99
    glentoran99 Posts: 5,825 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Wimbrel wrote: »
    You absolutely can fix this. Get the snowballs rolling and everything speeds up amazingly. In 2012 I was pretty much where you are today. I just did the sums to update my sig and I'm looking at debt free by the end of January 2017 and with, for the first time in ever, a decent emergency fund.

    Dont mean to jump in and derail the thread but your emergency fund is double your debt, why not pay off the debt and be rid of it?
  • glentoran99
    glentoran99 Posts: 5,825 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    brokebirdy wrote: »
    So tonight I finally faced up to the mess that I/We are in. We owe 45k in unsecured debt. I am shocked. I knew it was a lot but didn't think it was quite that much.

    I am going to talk to my wife about it over the weekend. She knows that we have a lot of debt but not the totals.

    I will do a proper SOA at some point but in a nutshell....

    Income ( joint) - £4200
    Outgoings ( all bills, mortgage and minimum debt payments) - £2500
    Food/fuel - 400

    Surplus - £1300


    I am in a state of panic/shock at the moment. Can we fix this or are we screwed?

    You need to do a proper SOA, i suspect you dont have a surplus of £1300 in reality otherwise how was the debt racked up? You need to be honest and if need be write down every penny spent for a couple of months
  • Wimbrel
    Wimbrel Posts: 70 Forumite
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    Dont mean to jump in and derail the thread but your emergency fund is double your debt, why not pay off the debt and be rid of it?

    Perfectly sensible question.

    The remaining debt is at 0% so I'm knocking it down on the very last snowball.:j

    And to be frank, it's so wonderful to have some money in the bank finally and at last that I didn't stop at the £5k I had planned but just kept going. :)
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Welcome to the boards

    just reposting the link in case you missed it

    http://www.whatsthecost.com/snowball.aspx

    Good luck with your journey. Once you have a full picture of you income and outgoings then you can startt moving forward.

    chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • Congratulations on your lightbulb moment. The good news is that, with your £1300 monthly excess, you'll see the debt off in no time.

    The bad news is...well, do you really have £1300 left over after expenses? And if so, how did you get into debt? Do you do your monthly shop at Fortum & Mason? :D

    Post a full SOA so you and we can get a true picture of your income & outgoings.
    My Debt Free Diary I owe:
    July 16 £19700 Nov 16 £18002
    Aug 16 £19519 Dec 16 £17708
    Sep 16 £18780 Jan 17 £17082
    Oct 16 £17873
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