We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Guarantor request by LL for student accomodation

1679111231

Comments

  • aquitaine
    aquitaine Posts: 93 Forumite
    Bossworld wrote: »
    I'm not sure how you would help my cause, but I suggest you look into a GCSE English Language course, so you can gain a proper understanding of the correct auxiliary verb to use in any given context.

    Perhaps the flakey basis for your crusade stems from your inability to comprehend the language in the contract?

    :money:

    Excellent riposte, but I fear you have ignored the rules which exclude the passive subjunctive. Get a grip.
  • aquitaine wrote: »
    Not at all, most people who don't agree with me are perfectly reasonable. In fact a bit of robust verbal jousting is quite fun. I hope you are enjoying it.

    I doubt it. You come across as a tedious opinionated ill-informed barrack-room lawyer, not a raconteur.
  • aquitaine
    aquitaine Posts: 93 Forumite
    I doubt it. You come across as a tedious opinionated ill-informed barrack-room lawyer, not a raconteur.

    If you seek to insult people at least do it with panache and style. You sound like a town hall jobsworth.
  • GwylimT
    GwylimT Posts: 6,530 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I doubt it. You come across as a tedious opinionated ill-informed barrack-room lawyer, not a raconteur.

    Thats quite insulting towards tedious opinonated ill-informed barrack-room lawyers.
  • GwylimT
    GwylimT Posts: 6,530 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    aquitaine wrote: »
    I am considered to be something of a raconteur at dinner parties and even do the occasional paid engagement. Thank you for the kind words.

    If I thought this was our fault I would happily admit it. What I don't like is being shafted by a bunch of spivvy estate agents in shiny suits.

    So you still think the estate agent owns the property?

    Court jesters will always bring in an audience.
  • aquitaine wrote: »
    If you seek to insult people at least do it with panache and style. You sound like a town hall jobsworth.

    I'm not trying to insult you.
  • aquitaine
    aquitaine Posts: 93 Forumite
    GwylimT wrote: »
    Thats quite insulting towards tedious opinonated ill-informed barrack-room lawyers.

    Hello. What a valuable contribution to the discussion that is. Thanks very much:-)
  • Andypandyboy
    Andypandyboy Posts: 2,472 Forumite
    edited 17 August 2016 at 9:21AM
    We have had several children go through HE and being a guarantor comes with the territory I am afraid. All those he is sharing with will have needed one, but each guarantor is "jointly and severally liable" that is just how it is.

    The liabilities are (generally) for the rent of others if not paid, finding a tenant if someone drops out and any damage. The building/contents will be insured by the LL, so the liability is very unlikely to "cause you to lose the family home".

    We have always instructed our kids to send us copy of any contract before they signed it, and they always have. We have also always warned them to think carefully about who they choose to live with and their attitude to money. Another issue is whose name the bills are in if not included in the rent, many an issue has come from that can of worms if not considered in advance.

    Usually it is a very simple agreement as described above. The deposit is always (has to be by law) protected and it is from that amount which any damage/excess cleaning payment is taken at the end of the term.

    This is the norm, no one is being mislead. As a second year student your son will have little in the way of other options as Halls of Residence are generally only available for freshers.

    You can find a private let but he will be away from his friends and I am sure he is wondering why, out of all the parents who sign these things every year, you are the only one who is kicking up a fuss......

    Take a deep breath, quell the histrionics, check exactly what your liabilities are, read the contract and do what all parents do - put your child's needs above your own need to take up the cudgels against what you see as unfairness. Much of what you allege re letting practice and the legalities entailed is simply incorrect. Read around the subject before making unfounded accusations.

    The bottom line is, as a parent, you should have prepared your son for this, helped him with the requirements and checked what he was signing. The infomation is all out there. We were all first time guarantors at one point, but as with most things in life forearmed is forewarned.

    As for the suggestion of your son moving in covertly without a guarantor, if I was the parent of one of the other students I would not be happy with that at all.
  • GwylimT
    GwylimT Posts: 6,530 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    aquitaine wrote: »
    Hello. What a valuable contribution to the discussion that is. Thanks very much:-)

    You're more than welcome.
  • aquitaine
    aquitaine Posts: 93 Forumite
    I'm not trying to insult you.
    You're not trying to be sarcastic are you? Ironic perhaps. I am afraid you're not doing too well at it but never mind, keep practicing. Here's a hint for you, a sense of humour will help.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.2K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.