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Religious Trips and Time off from school

Hi,

We are planning to go to Hajj (Pilgrimage) in Sept. This can only happen in a month of September. This will be for 3 weeks.

I have 2 kids 5 & 8 years old. We are planning to leave my younger child with my sister and take the older child with us.

We live in Birmingham. I know schools are very strict in relation to holidays but what about if it is relates to religious activity which cannot be done during half term?

Thanks
MS
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  • Andypandyboy
    Andypandyboy Posts: 2,472 Forumite
    I believe the ruling applies across the board, without exception.
  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,590 Forumite
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    Some schools specifically mention Hajj in their absence policies. It may be worth checking with your child's school to see what their policy is.
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • callum9999
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    Well if today's high court ruling is anything to go by it seems you can take your child out of school whenever you want as long as it's less than 10% of the year.

    Though without meaning to be too judgemental, I'm not sure I'd take my 8 year old on a pilgrimage in which thousands were crushed to death just last year.
  • richardw
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    edited 13 May 2016 at 9:03PM
    3 weeks in a 5 year old's life is a very long time to be away from their parents and siblings.
    Posts are not advice and must not be relied upon.
  • callum9999
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    richardw wrote: »
    3 weeks in a 5 year old's life is a very long time to be away from their parents and siblings.

    Assuming they know their aunt, I'm sure they'll just about manage to cope. There are kids not much older living in boarding schools!
  • theonlywayisup
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    callum9999 wrote: »
    There are kids not much older living in boarding schools!

    With children in boarding school, I am not quite sure what you mean.
  • callum9999
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    With children in boarding school, I am not quite sure what you mean.

    When children live at school.
  • theonlywayisup
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    callum9999 wrote: »
    There are kids not much older living in boarding schools!
    callum9999 wrote: »
    When children live at school.

    I know what boarding means - they don't live at school, they stay there during term times.;)

    Your first comment isn't clear, particularly because of the exclamation mark.
  • callum9999
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    I know what boarding means - they don't live at school, they stay there during term times.;)

    Your first comment isn't clear, particularly because of the exclamation mark.

    Well my point seemed incredibly obvious so I didn't know if English was your second language... Though as they spend more time there than at "home", I don't see how you can object to them being said to live there?

    Children live in boarding schools away from parents and siblings for entire terms or entire years, I don't think an almost 6 year old being with other family for 3 weeks is really going to be that traumatic!
  • Voyager2002
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    starM wrote: »
    Hi,

    We are planning to go to Hajj (Pilgrimage) in Sept. This can only happen in a month of September. This will be for 3 weeks.

    I have 2 kids 5 & 8 years old. We are planning to leave my younger child with my sister and take the older child with us.

    We live in Birmingham. I know schools are very strict in relation to holidays but what about if it is relates to religious activity which cannot be done during half term?

    Thanks
    MS

    I think that Mecca will still be there once your children have finished school, so why not save the Hajj until then.
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