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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • PrettyKittyKat
    PrettyKittyKat Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    Wifeforlife, thank you for coming back to update us on your circumstances. I can totally understand how it has taken some time to come to terms with it. When making a big decision like having more children your mind can become set and see your life in one way, so to then realise your life will be different (not worse, just different) it is totally reasonable that it will take some time to get your head around it again. You have lots to look forward to now your two children are older and more independent, you can do lots of different types of adventure as a family. I wish you lots of luck and happiness!

    HappyLassie13, sending you lots of hugs! Check in and let us know how your OH is doing when you get a chance.

    KatieBee123, I am so so sorry. Take all the time you need, we are here when you need us whatever the outcome of Tuesday.
  • My thoughts are with you Katie, everything crossed.

    OH was admitted on Wednesday and he won!!!8217;t be coming out until at least Monday, he had a much better day yesterday then previous but he!!!8217;s let me know that today he!!!8217;s feeling worse. We go away in 2 weeks time so we are keeping everything crossed that he!!!8217;ll be given the all clear and be fit to fly.

    Hope you!!!8217;re all doing okay.
  • lola25
    lola25 Posts: 57 Forumite
    Morning All

    KatieBee – I am so sorry to hear that, I have everything crossed for you that it is all ok. Will be thinking of you on Tuesday, please do keep in touch, we are all here to support you.

    HappyLassie – Sorry to hear that your OH was admitted to hospital, wishing him a speedy recovery. Make sure you take care of yourself.

    xx
    You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You are on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the woman who will decide where to go :smiley:
    2019 Bride:heart2: 09.11.2019 :blushing:
  • Celepie
    Celepie Posts: 134 Forumite
    I'm so sorry, Katie. I have everything crossed for your scan and hope that it's just random bleeding. Thinking of you x

    Hope your husband gets better soon, HL. Must be a worrying time for you x

    On the Conceive Plus topic, the month we got our BFP was the first month we'd used it but that's purely anecdotal and most likely coincidental! A little goes a long way though !!!8211; we didn't notice any real difference in sensation during sex, but I didn't use a huge amount and squirted it quite high up there with the applicator.
  • lola25
    lola25 Posts: 57 Forumite
    Hi

    My bleeding was still very light until yesterday, but has since stopped today. I did another test yesterday, and still got a positive. I told my OH last night, and he was over the moon.

    I am going to take the decision to move across to the 'less than 12 weeks' board, but will still lurk on this board too, to see how everybody is getting along.

    I am trying ever so hard to keep a level head and not get too excited, as I know there is a long road ahead. I am going to go to my GP next week and fill in the form, and hopefully I won't have any more bleeding.

    I really hope everything works out for every member of this group, you are such a wonderful bunch of people! xx
    You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You are on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the woman who will decide where to go :smiley:
    2019 Bride:heart2: 09.11.2019 :blushing:
  • PrettyKittyKat
    PrettyKittyKat Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD50 Tryingin2018

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone
    CD28 Buttermint
    CD18 HappyLassie13
    CD14 PrettyKittyKat
    CD10 BusyBargainz

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone

    CD8 Faith177
    CD6 Zeni
    CD4 Skimper
    CD? April87

    Those we haven't heard from in a while:
    Nanyco
    CamelLady
    athensgeorgia
    SlothSocks
    wifeforlife
    LKRDN_Morgan

    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

    For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
    ([ )COLOR="magenta"( ] )your text ( [ )/COLOR ( ] ) (lose the round bracket)

    Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up. If you would like adding to the lists just let me know what CD day you are (the first day of your period is CD1).

    2018 Thread Graduates:
    Afoolandhermoney 23/01/2018
    Selement 9/3/2018
    Toots14 13/3/2018
    T4Taylor 29/3/2018
    NelliePie 13/4/2018
    HappyLassie13 20/5/2018
    Rambosmum 24/5/2018
    Celepie 30/5/2018
    HopHop 28/5/2018
    Gemini90 31/5/2018
    Sakurah 22/6/2018
    BapBap 1/7/2018
    KatieBee123 5/7/2018
    Lola25 11/7/2018
  • PrettyKittyKat
    PrettyKittyKat Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    i hope you've all had a lovely weekend. A visit to family overnight last night means we are out of sync with our 'every other day' plan, but as I am still on flashing smiley on CB OPK's and fertile week starts Tuesday according to Ovia I am hoping it doesn't affect things!
  • OH IS HOME! I am so happy!!
    I think Ovulation is today according to apps so unless he feels very good tonight we will not be seeing a BFP this time round. However PKK can you move me to the two week week wait tomorrow please.
  • HopHop
    HopHop Posts: 89 Forumite
    So glad he's home! Hope he's back to full strength soon.
  • PrettyKittyKat
    PrettyKittyKat Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    I am so glad he is home HappyLassie. I will change you over on the lists tomorrow. Enjoy cuddles with your OH home tonight!
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