Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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Hugs to you hotcookie. I'm in the same situation (last chance for bfp before mc due date), got a positive on the opk yesterday, but OH too tired. I'm really trying to put all the 'important dates' out of mind as far as I can, as I don't think a deadline helps me at all here. I don't want to completely forget, just to have a clean slate.

We aren't completely out, it just seemed that would have been the ideal time. Off on holiday today, so looking forward to having plenty of fun during the 2ww! Hope you manage some distractions too.

I'm 1dpo in the 2ww please Kirtsy

kirtsypoos

I've edited the list for you Cherry Have a lovely holiday

hotcookie101

Thank you everyone for your thoughts. Today isn't too bad, but am getting really apprehensive about the date coming up. I will probably feel happier after that date, well, I don't know actually. I'm sure this isn't our month anyway...

I thought I ovulated tuesday/wednesday (temp went up weds am, I had EWCM sun/mon and a bit tuesday) but then temp dropped a little bit again this morning) which was CD12/13 so if I did-thats 1-2 whole days earlier than last month, so if I can stick to a 25 day cycle I'd have an almost acceptable LP However, I have had a 21 and a 22 day cycle since MC ...

Temping question-is ovulation the day BEFORE temps rise, or the day they rise? That's why I have 12/13 up there

Chelle22

Hi hotcookie, my understanding is that you ovulate when your temperature is at it's lowest, so when you get a temperature rise then you have ovulated. In my experience it can sometimes take a couple of days to rise, sometimes mine rises immediately but this month it took a couple of days. My temp also seems to drop slightly immediately after it has risen, but then goes back up again the next day. Don't know if that is a thing or just me!

Hope that helps! Seems a lot of us have ovulated around about the same time this month so will all be going through the 2ww together

sulphate

Chelle22 wrote: »

Hi hotcookie, my understanding is that you ovulate when your temperature is at it's lowest, so when you get a temperature rise then you have ovulated. In my experience it can sometimes take a couple of days to rise, sometimes mine rises immediately but this month it took a couple of days. My temp also seems to drop slightly immediately after it has risen, but then goes back up again the next day. Don't know if that is a thing or just me!

Hope that helps! Seems a lot of us have ovulated around about the same time this month so will all be going through the 2ww together

That's my understanding too!

I use FF and Ovia to track my temps and on FF a coverline appears which estimates the day of ovulation - it doesn't do that until a few days later though, so not helpful for planning to BD! Ovia estimates it as well but the 2 apps are disagreeing this month, Ovia thinks I ov'd on 20 June and FF thinks the 23rd.

kirtsypoos

TTC thread

Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD21 Cherry Gale - 4 dpo
CD21 Zeni - 5dpo
CD34 athensgeorgia - 6 dpo
CD23 Chelle22 - 7 dpo
CD29 Sulphate - 8 dpo
CD50 twigpig - 39 dpo
CD48 thrift360 - ?? dpo

"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD8 kirtsypoos - awaiting ov
CD18 Toots14 - awaiting ov
CD53 spooney7 - awaiting ov
CD61 ButterflyBabe - awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone

:EasterBun

Those we haven't heard from in a while
easilydistracted
dragoneye454
DSM348

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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Thread Graduates :T

Orange_Candle 11/5/17
alipops1986 05/05/17
samtoby
2ba3c 25/03/17
chickenmama 10/12/16
PeppaCoin BFP 29/11/16
Ratison BFP 05/11/16
Newthrift BFP 20/10/16
Snowscreamer BFP 15/10/16
Firebird082 BFP 08/10/16
Penguingirl BFP 24/09/16
april87 BFP 22/09/16
Keekee BFP 21/08/16
Clarabell1984 BFP 21/7/16
Cats2012 BFP 9/7/16
big5 BFP 15/6/16
sexymouse BFP 4/6/16
VicVics BFP 16/5/16
MancMama4 BFP 29/4/16
pinkpetal BFP 24/4/16
Apple1985 BFP 19/4/16
Tinks05 BFP 18/4/16

kirtsypoos

Hi all, sorry, I have been MIA at my nieces christening this weekend.

I normally get a dip on day of OV and then my temp rises afterwards so not much help with BD planning, but helpful to know when OV happens - especially when cycles go a bit weird!

kirtsypoos

TTC thread

Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD22 Cherry Gale - 5 dpo
CD22 Zeni - 6 dpo
CD35 athensgeorgia - 7 dpo
CD24 Chelle22 - 8 dpo
CD30 Sulphate - 9 dpo
CD51 twigpig - 40 dpo
CD49 thrift360 - ?? dpo

"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD9 kirtsypoos - awaiting ov
CD19 Toots14 - awaiting ov
CD54 spooney7 - awaiting ov
CD62 ButterflyBabe - awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone

:EasterBun

Those we haven't heard from in a while
easilydistracted
dragoneye454
DSM348

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
([ )COLOR="magenta"( ] )your text ( [ )/COLOR ( ] ) (lose the round bracket)

Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.

Thread Graduates :T

Orange_Candle 11/5/17
alipops1986 05/05/17
samtoby
2ba3c 25/03/17
chickenmama 10/12/16
PeppaCoin BFP 29/11/16
Ratison BFP 05/11/16
Newthrift BFP 20/10/16
Snowscreamer BFP 15/10/16
Firebird082 BFP 08/10/16
Penguingirl BFP 24/09/16
april87 BFP 22/09/16
Keekee BFP 21/08/16
Clarabell1984 BFP 21/7/16
Cats2012 BFP 9/7/16
big5 BFP 15/6/16
sexymouse BFP 4/6/16
VicVics BFP 16/5/16
MancMama4 BFP 29/4/16
pinkpetal BFP 24/4/16
Apple1985 BFP 19/4/16
Tinks05 BFP 18/4/16

MrsNubs

Well CD1 for me. We knew we were out this month due to the terrible timing of my UTI so it's just a relief to have a relatively normal cycle (45 days) and know we'll get another chance soon.

Fingers crossed for all the lovely ladies in the 2ww!

kirtsypoos

Sorry AF got you MrsNubs but glad you've had a normalish cycle and can get on to the next one

I'm sorry if I've asked this before, but do you want to be added to the list?