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  • Huskyrunner
    Huskyrunner Posts: 542 Forumite
    edited 1 December 2016 at 2:47PM
    Yeah one poll is starting too nark me its so inconsistent

    Xmas for me this year is definetly cancelled i dont want too go into specifics at this time but me and my oh split up at the weekend. I am living with an auntie and uncle at the moment i dont think there is any going back.
    debts 16550
    Mortgage 69500
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,648 Forumite
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    Ahh that's carp husky, I'm so sorry. :(
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  • No as sorry as i am women thats all i am saying. She had being cheating and got caught. I dont know whats happening with anything that this stage.

    I am gunna put this post up from here i dont think i am going too post for a bit i have only just gone back too work i dont need the stress of this.
    debts 16550
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  • I dont know whats gunna happen with the house/dogs/mortgage anything

    So so confusing
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  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
    Savvy Shopper! I've been Money Tipped!
    Sweetie so sorry! What a horrible turn of events.
    " Your vibe attracts your tribe":D

    Debt neutral :) 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
    Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
    RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.20
  • Munchin
    Munchin Posts: 2,816 Forumite
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    So sorry..
  • I am so sorry Huskyrunner, that is quite a blow and I'm assuming out of the blue. I hope you are able to sort things, especially re the dogs, not having them around must just add to the stress.

    I'm glad things are going well at work. I don't know what else to say, you must feel like you've been kicked in the teeth. If you do decide you'd like to talk about the situation or just how things are going in general, we are always here to listen. :(
  • it was not expected at all no

    i feel like i have absolutely being kicked all over. I have left my home i really miss the dogs loads and loads. And i am alone its carp the only positive is i am back too work so i can start earning decent again.

    the one person i depended on does this

    My aunt and uncle are charging me board but it aint a fortune 125 pm starting my next pay day. I cant even bring any of the dogs here as much as i would like too.
    debts 16550
    Mortgage 69500
  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
    Savvy Shopper! I've been Money Tipped!
    Is she sorry at least?
    " Your vibe attracts your tribe":D

    Debt neutral :) 27/03/17 from £40k:eek: in the hole 2012.
    Roadkill 17 £56.58 2016-£62.28 2015- £84.20)
    RYSAW17 £1900 2016 £2,535.16 2015 £1027.20
  • Huskyrunner
    Huskyrunner Posts: 542 Forumite
    edited 5 December 2016 at 5:39AM
    I dont think she gives the preverbial !!!! bob i spoke too her last night re the house/mortgage dogs etc and she didn't come across as sorry she just came across as cold.

    Mug here is going too keep paying the mortgage here for six months as i am concerned re the dogs. She has started getting up at 530 am walk the dogs, she never did this when i was at home maybe if she had i wouldn't of being so goosed all the time.

    I am at work at the minute and i have tonight too work (monday into tuesday) then i am off till Sunday.

    Work touch wood being back is going well its only of the only things bar socializing a lot which is keeping my mind clear. The only killer is i am spending 2-3 hours travelling into work which is a killer after a 8.5 hour night shift. And last time i used public transport it was not this expensive. I am having too spend 130 quid on bus/train cards before i even start making anything.

    I am part ssp for my december pay and 2 shifts of normal pay. Role on January when i will be back too full money.
    debts 16550
    Mortgage 69500
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