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Should I reply to this email

I've received this email through ebay:

"Hi, I am sorry to bother you, but I believe I bought the ellipse bag from you some time ago. Now my mother in law is dying for the same bag and I am trying to find the person who sold it to me, because I got an absolutely awesome deal, and you know how hard it is to find a great deal. Please help me. If you are the person, please let me know if you have another one, or just let me know that it wasn't you because I really need to find that person before her birthday.

Thank you,
jeqodsyhtre21"

I'm not the person that they are looking for (I've never sold anything on ebay) I did a search on their name and they have only been registered for 1 month and made one purchase and are in the US. Should I respnod to this enquiry or ignore it - I don't want to risk giving out my email address (I don't know if they would get my address).

Anyway, I don't want to be unhelpful, but I can't help feeling suspicious and you guys always seem to know what to do!
"There's hard work. And there's not so hard work. I prefer not so hard work. But if you mix not so hard work with hard work it's harder than the not so hard work but not so hard as the hard work."

Joshua, 6 years old

Money for treats:
Internet clicking: £67.37
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  • BellaBargains
    BellaBargains Posts: 202 Forumite
    Someone, anyone, please!
    "There's hard work. And there's not so hard work. I prefer not so hard work. But if you mix not so hard work with hard work it's harder than the not so hard work but not so hard as the hard work."

    Joshua, 6 years old

    Money for treats:
    Internet clicking: £67.37
  • Emmy
    Emmy Posts: 1,929 Forumite
    I think I would just ignore it HTH
    Emmy :)
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  • Midget_Karen
    Midget_Karen Posts: 127 Forumite
    I think just no one knows what to say.

    I think if it were me I would ignore it, and see if they email again.

    BTW, really like your signature!!
    Proud to have become an Ocean Rower in 2010 (crossed the Atlantic in a crew of 4 ladies and had the best 77 days of my life!)
  • Bossyboots
    Bossyboots Posts: 6,760 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    I would definitely ignore it. It is kind of you not to want to appear unhelpful but I suspect the sender of the e-mail may not be so scrupulous.

    You are not obliged to response, nor do you need to feel guilty for not doing so. Just delete it.
  • Catseyez
    Catseyez Posts: 993 Forumite
    I wouldn't trust it at all. If it were me, I would totally ignore it. I'd also print a copy of their profile (and all other contact info) and a copy of the e-mail and save it somewhere. I would also change my password for both ebay and paypal. If my phone number was listed, I would take that off too. Which you can as a buyer.

    I'm assuming that if you respond, they'll be able to see your e-mail address?

    They could well be a bunch of fraudster's who are trying to get people to give them details. You just never know.

    If you haven't traded for a long time, it might be worth letting them 'know' that your account is still active. You could do that by just bidding once on any popular item (that you have no chance of winning - but nothing like a car!) for a couple of pence that has about 5 days left at auction.

    If anything strange happens to your account in the near future, you'll have some evidence!!

    At least that's what I would do. Maybe some of the more experienced ebayers on here have better suggestions?
  • VH
    VH Posts: 501 Forumite
    Doesn't sound like a scam to me.

    The buyer will have purchased the bag a long time ago and forgotten who they bought it from. The purchase will have been made from an older account, which may have been closed for some reason, and they can't check back to see who they bought the bag from.

    They will have deleted all the emails they had relating to it, and will probably have a vague recollection of the name of the seller. Hence what they have probably done is mailed a few sellers with similar sounding names in the hope that they can find the correct one.

    Sounds pretty innocent to me.

    You're obviously not the seller so I would just ignore it.

    I get a lot of mails which I ignore, e.g. the old classic "How much for Buy It Now please", sent by people trying to get a bargain out of you.
  • Bargainbabe_2
    Bargainbabe_2 Posts: 1,741 Forumite
    VH wrote:
    Doesn't sound like a scam to me.

    The buyer will have purchased the bag a long time ago and forgotten who they bought it from. The purchase will have been made from an older account, which may have been closed for some reason, and they can't check back to see who they bought the bag from.

    They will have deleted all the emails they had relating to it, and will probably have a vague recollection of the name of the seller. Hence what they have probably done is mailed a few sellers with similar sounding names in the hope that they can find the correct one.

    Sounds pretty innocent to me.

    You're obviously not the seller so I would just ignore it.

    I get a lot of mails which I ignore, e.g. the old classic "How much for Buy It Now please", sent by people trying to get a bargain out of you.

    Totally agree. Why all the suspicion? Its not exactly the most sinister of emails is it? I personally think its totally innocent. As VH has said, as its not you then there's no need to reply. Although even if you did, I'm sure when you click "respond now" you have the option to hide your email address.
    "There are no pockets in a shroud..."
  • Tojo_Ralph
    Tojo_Ralph Posts: 8,373 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Jesus H !!!! ..... Paranoia rules :eek:

    :p

    By all means reply, I would, (I'm nosey :p) however, I would do as I normally do and reply from a disposable Hotmail account. ;)
    The MSE Dictionary
    Loophole - A word used to entice people to read clearly written Terms and Conditions.
    Rip Off - Clearly written Terms and Conditions.
    Terms and Conditions - Otherwise known as a loophole or a rip off.
  • barjam_2
    barjam_2 Posts: 1,667 Forumite
    i think the op said they did a check on the name and they had only been registerd for a month so thats not too long ago not enough to warrant in saying "some time ago" best to ignore it as pevious guys have said, it obviously isnt you so dont worry about not responding
  • Bargainbabe_2
    Bargainbabe_2 Posts: 1,741 Forumite
    Again like VH said it could of been from another eBay account.
    "There are no pockets in a shroud..."
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