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My partner's house has been let without his knowledge or consent-ombudsman won't help

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  • AdrianC
    AdrianC Posts: 42,189 Forumite
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    -taff wrote: »
    He can tell her he's going to inform the mortgage company and the HMRC for undeclared income.
    That'll proably focus her mind a bit more.
    Petty blackmail isn't needed, when there's a defined legal procedure to achieve exactly the desired result.
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    -taff wrote: »
    He can tell her he's going to inform the mortgage company and the HMRC for undeclared income.
    That'll proably focus her mind a bit more.

    Having a bun fight is all very well. At some point there's has to be compromise between the parties involved. Points scoring doesn't achieve anything ultimately.
  • vanilla_twist
    vanilla_twist Posts: 3,980 Forumite
    I had this happen to me. My ex rented rooms out in our house to stop me moving back while he was at sea. I put up with it for so long and in the end phoned the mortgage company and told them I did not agree to him renting out rooms.
    They sent him a letter stating he did not have my permission and he had not told them he was renting.
    Basically it told him to stop straight away which he did. He kicked the tenants out and installed his flaming mother (who has her own house) saying she was watching the property.
    I let him keep the house as divorce was nov 2007 and I had some very good advice about forthcoming recession.

    V x
    fairclaire wrote: »
    . I do think a chaise lounge is a good description of you though. Stylish yet comfortable and laid back :)

    May the odds be ever in your favour;)

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