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Newly single parent with 12 yr old boy - holiday options?

My husband and I have recently separated and it has been very difficult for our 12 year old son to come to terms with. I'd really like to be able to take him on holiday during the summer (probably late August due to school holiday restrictions), preferably somewhere where there'll be other children but I have a limited budget and no idea where's best to go... Any suggestions or advice would be really appreciated x
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  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    have you asked your son what kind of holiday he'd prefer to do in the summertime?

    I go on holiday alone with my daughter (she's 14 now, but started when she was 5). She doesn't enjoy a solely beach/pool holiday, and all inclusive is her idea of hell on earth. She's happier when we're out doing some kind of activity together, even if thats exploring the town, visiting a local castle/landmark etc.

    We're all different, and at your son's age its going to make it a much more pleasant holiday if you take his opinions and ideas into account with your own.

    I know you say you have a limited budget, but maybe you could also consider asking your son if he'd like to invite a close friend, and you go camping or caravanning somewhere?
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    My dd is 13, she loves the all-inclusive holiday, as long as she has a good swimming pool she is happy, although we do go and explore the best we can.

    If you look around think its Thomas Cook, they do single parent savers, I think on all-in the child age is upto 12, half board /bb think its 17. generally its the adult price with paying the child place.

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    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • duchy
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    Are you thinking abroad or in this country

    What sort of budget do you have......limited to one person is generous to another
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  • baza52
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    Why not try a Haven or similar site? Lots of activities for kids of all ages, plus he is certain to meet others the same age as him.
  • torbrex
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    edited 10 January 2016 at 3:19AM
    If the separation is recent and budget is tight should you really be thinking about a holiday at home or abroad?
    Give yourself time to settle into a single parent way of life before spending money that you might need later in the year.
  • baza52
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    torbrex wrote: »
    If the separation is recent and budget is tight should you really be thinking about a holiday abroad?
    Give yourself time to settle into a single parent way of life before spending money that you might need later in the year.

    OP never said they wanted to go abroad.
  • Voyager2002
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    You might consider Butlins...
  • richardw
    richardw Posts: 19,459 Forumite
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    edited 10 January 2016 at 9:23AM
    Where in the UK are you?

    What date is his first day back at school?

    There are lots of campsite/mobile home possibilities.
    Posts are not advice and must not be relied upon.
  • duchy
    duchy Posts: 19,511 Forumite
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    torbrex wrote: »
    If the separation is recent and budget is tight should you really be thinking about a holiday at home or abroad?
    Give yourself time to settle into a single parent way of life before spending money that you might need later in the year.

    How condescending
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  • Mojisola
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    I know you say you have a limited budget, but maybe you could also consider asking your son if he'd like to invite a close friend, and you go camping or caravanning somewhere?

    When the kids were small, we used to go camping with a group of friends - some couples with kids, some single parents with their off-spring plus some adults without children - and that worked very well.
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