Confused.

DaftyDuck

Gigervamp wrote: »

I'm sure someone will come along and repost it.

Well, some of the vanished bits I've used to quote for my reply. The rest is but a Google click away!

.... He doesn't feel like we connect or have anything in common and doesn't feel like he can have fun with me even if we did go out and do stuff.

OK, so that's an outline of why he isn't happy...

He doesn't have anything to be unhappy about...

Well, aside from what he told you just then, that is. It's not lack of job/money/possessions, it's something emotional, relational.

Charming hey

No, it's a bit sad. Poor chap. But:

Apparently he wants to try make things different. ....

Excellent! Good for him! Now, if you try as well, sit down and listen, rather than treat it as blah, blah, and don't tell him there's nothing to be unhappy about, there's hope.

Good luck to you both.

heuchera

Sounds like she's indoors looking after the home and baby, and he's out working. Is quiet resentment setting in on both sides? He's fed up with coming home to a woman who's got no conversation except whether or not she's hung the washing on the line, and she's fed up with the never-ending drudgery of housework and childcare and him not helping her?

Peter333

heuchera wrote: »

Sounds like she's indoors looking after the home and baby, and he's out working. Is quiet resentment setting in on both sides? He's fed up with coming home to a woman who's got no conversation except whether or not she's hung the washing on the line, and she's fed up with the never-ending drudgery of housework and childcare and him not helping her?

Sounds like a typical marriage! :rotfl:

I'm kidding!




Or am I?