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O/S Daily Sunday 3 January 2016

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  • RR didn't just want to read and run so a big ((((HUG))))) for you. Hope things work out the way you want them to xx
    "If you dream alone it will remain just a dream. But if we all dream together it will become reality"
  • Hugs to Judi too, it seems like it is a good thing that everyone is back to work soon.
    Chin up, Titus out.
  • sistercas
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    Oh god , men ,they are a pain in the backside, I hope things settle for all of you having difficulties ,
    Feel free to offload on here
    Much love to all of you xx
  • System
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    edited 4 January 2016 at 10:42AM
    Spoke to my oldest daughter earlier. I needed to know she was ok and not replying to my messages was triggering all sorts of warning bells.

    Well apparently Soldier has ADHD and is under medication because of it. Their new adopted son has got mobility problems. He is having physiotherapy on his legs because they are so very weak and his posture is so bad. Theres a chance he has a mild form of cerebal palsy. The Baby House is running smoothly but their foster child is causing a few headaches. So now i know my daughter is ok i can settle.

    Middle son was messaging Youngest this afternoon. He must have been either drunk/stoned or out of it because very little made sense. He's got a job but needs a job.... he gets £75 a week left over from his pay by the time he's paid for everything but then he said he hadnt eaten for 12 days. He got defensive when Youngest asked what he spent his £75 on.... and middle son ended up blocking him. He got pretty much the same response as i did. He wants money but doesnt want us to question what he does with his own money. He doesnt like being questioned. He doesnt want advice... he wants to go his own sweet way with a few handouts thrown in.

    He says he wants help but then says he doesnt want help.....

    Mom was fine when i went to see her, happy and cheery. Stuffing her face with cake and reading through the magazines i took her. Ive cleaned her room from top to bottom. Of course the room is cleaned when the cleaner does it but she doesnt clean in the corners and i do. Theres a little repair job that needs doing on the television unit. Ive asked hubby to find a screw to fit the hole in the drawer where the handle was. Maybe then we can use the drawer in the unit. Ive taken her Christmas tree down and replaced it with a dried flower arrangement.:)

    My Grumpy says he is ill, he's got a sore throat and feels rubbish. Anything to get out of going back to work....

    Sleep well all.
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  • RosyRed
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    Oh dear ,lots of hugs coming your way and hope things resolve themselves soon RR xx
    :heartsmil 'A woman is like a teabag: You never know her strength until you drop her in hot water'. (Eleanor Roosevelt)
  • System
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    redruby wrote: »
    Thanks everyone, don't want to say too much on here as he might read it, suffice to say I have not been spoken to for nearly three days now, its just not that he is not talking but avoiding me 100 %, and being nasty with it, I am really at the end of my tether :(

    Redruby much love. I hope he pulls himself out of the black mood he is in soon. Theres no room for nastiness in a relationship.
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  • topsyturphy
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    Redruby sending lots of (((hugs))) your way, hope your dh comes to his senses.

    Well today I was invited to dsd for lunch. As one of my resolutions was to let things go that have upset me, I decided to go. It was lovely to see the children and she made an effort too. Dh was happier that things had moved forward. Ds2 came too which was nice.

    Not much os today. Need to clean in the morning as back to work tomorrow.

    Csarina stay strong, I would have lost it ages ago. Thinking of you.

    Hugs to anyone that needs/wants one. Take care.
  • meanmarie
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    Csarina, Ruby, Floss and anyone else in need of one.....hugs.

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