Struggling with life after break up

vrose1982

Reading your post, I really think you just wanted to vent rather than keep it all bottled up inside. Sometimes it is good to write things down as keeping it all inside isn't good.

Firstly i think you need to have a serious think about where you would like to be...London or back home. I always remember a close (single) friend of mine saying that people think London is a great place for singletons but we both couldn't agree less!

Once you have decided this I think you will have something to occupy your mind with, whether that be organising a move back home or thinkin right, i'm going to make a go of it here in London.

Do you play any sport? I play netball and there are hundreds of teams in London....social leagues, mixed netball leagues etc. It's a really good way to meet people and much more social than pilates!!

I second the idea about another job too.....somethin like bar work or similar. And there should be lots of opportunities to pick something up casually over the christmas period.

x

FBaby

Surely if the one reason for disacordance the second time was that you wanted to go home and he didn't, why aren't you back there?

I don't understand why you are staying in London if you were prepare to break up with him so not to do so. Surely it is now time to do what you wanted, which is leave London and start afresh again somewhere you feel more comfortable?

VfM4meplse

FBaby wrote: »

Surely if the one reason for disacordance the second time was that you wanted to go home and he didn't, why aren't you back there?

I don't understand why you are staying in London if you were prepare to break up with him so not to do so. Surely it is now time to do what you wanted, which is leave London and start afresh again somewhere you feel more comfortable?

Harsh words but true.

Don't doubt that you can rebuild a great life in London. There is the complication that you will hold out hope for a life with your ex if you decide to stay.