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The other side of that is how stacked against working was the benefits system 15 years ago? 30 years ago? Do you think it is going to reverse course?
Regardless of the numbers I still think the majority of people want to support themselves and long term (not necessarily with small kids - but when kids are older) get some intrinsic satisfaction from their jobs, what they do and the interaction with their colleagues and the community. A lot of people would get very depressed long term sitting in the house even if essentially paid to do so. Why do people volunteer in hospitals etc?0 -
barnaby-bear wrote: »Regardless of the numbers
You should never be regardless of the numbers. Ultimately the numbers dictate the level of comfort you can give your family.
Other considers can, and should be brought into play. But the decision should be taken with an all-round view of the facts - not of dogma."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
I sort of agree really - I have a lot of respect for people who stay at home with their children, but I find it can be a bit lonely sometimes, and yes, I do wonder what would happen when they are even just a few years older, and both out at school all day. Would I still have the confidence/skills to go back into the workforce etc.
Having said that, the job I do probably isn't the right job for me in the long term, but as I haven't worked out exactly what IS, and I do like the people I work with, I think I'm probably better off there than not working at all, even though it doesn mean some sacrifices."I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
barnaby-bear wrote: »I'm teaching the kiddies something on data and statistical sampling and timescales at the moment.
I'm picturing 4 year olds with huge piles of statistical data...:rotfl:"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
I sort of agree really - I have a lot of respect for people who stay at home with their children, but I find it can be a bit lonely sometimes, and yes, I do wonder what would happen when they are even just a few years older, and both out at school all day. Would I still have the confidence/skills to go back into the workforce etc.
Having said that, the job I do probably isn't the right job for me in the long term, but as I haven't worked out exactly what IS, and I do like the people I work with, I think I'm probably better off there than not working at all, even though it doesn mean some sacrifices.
I would get bored easily.:heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls0 -
Jinky, your sig is very romantic!
Is there a Mr Jinky? (I am soooo nosey, sorry)
"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
You should never be regardless of the numbers. Ultimately the numbers dictate the level of comfort you can give your family.
Other considers can, and should be brought into play. But the decision should be taken with an all-round view of the facts - not of dogma.0 -
LOL!!!
Now THAT is intriguing!"I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250
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