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  • *zippy*
    *zippy* Posts: 2,979 Forumite
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    So sorry for your loss polmop xxxx
  • jrtfan
    jrtfan Posts: 1,135 Forumite
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    I'm very sorry for your loss Polmop. It's nice that she will be coming home to a favourite spot of hers.

    Run free, Bonnie x
  • Ah Polmop how are you? As you know my lovely girl was put to sleep on Sunday. I so understand what you are going through. They have such a short life with us.

    My girl is being cremated as well and I will scatter her ashes at the same place we scattered my mums ashes. Just to let you know thinking of you xxxx
    £12,432 - debt free February 2018 :j
  • zaksmum
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    Polmop...hope you're ok.
  • BlueEyedGirl
    BlueEyedGirl Posts: 1,753 Forumite
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    Sorry for your loss, I think putting her in the garden is a lovely idea.
  • babyblooz
    babyblooz Posts: 1,122 Forumite
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    Losing a dearly loved animal is a terrible thing to go through. So sorry for your loss. Take some time out and just be kind to yourself. Grieving is a process and there is no time limit to it. x
    :hello: :wave: please play nicely children !
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    so sorry for your lose, the ashes are a lovely idea, a way to remember the good days xxx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • Polmop
    Polmop Posts: 665 Forumite
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    Thanks for the kind words, ive been fine all week, but the vets have just called to say she is ready to collect and ive just lost it.
    Sitting at my desk and cant stop crying.
    Roll on 5pm
  • babyblooz
    babyblooz Posts: 1,122 Forumite
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    Oh bless you x one step at a time x
    :hello: :wave: please play nicely children !
  • Polmop, hugs to you. I picked my girl up this afternoon. Vet said on Sunday it would be a week so when I got the phone call I got upset. Had geared myself up to pick her up next week. But do you know since I've bought her home I feel at peace. She's back here with me.
    I talked to her coming back in the car and I've been talking to her since.

    Put her to rest when you feel ready. There's no rush. I'm going to scatter her where we scattered mums ashes. Plus Blue Cross charity do lockets where you can put some of the ash into the locket and wear it next to your skin. So I'm going to do that as well. I found it on Amazon.

    Thinking of you Polmop xxxxx
    £12,432 - debt free February 2018 :j
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