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At what age is 'normal' to buy? How old were you?

FIRSTTIMER
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Hi,
I just wanted to not feel so on my own by asking what age are people buying these days? I am 30 have a 40k deposit and am thinking I should be buying now as opposed to living with the parents.....thoughts?
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I just wanted to not feel so on my own by asking what age are people buying these days? I am 30 have a 40k deposit and am thinking I should be buying now as opposed to living with the parents.....thoughts?
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Why are the only options living with parents or buying? I left home at 19, rented for a number of years whilst at university and the for flexibility to move for jobs. Bought at 26 then went back to renting at 30 as I moved cities to further my career. About to buy again.0
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At the age you can afford to buy a property.0
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32 and counting.
Rented in my mid 20s, moved back in with the parents in order to save a deposit.:www: Progress Report :www:
Offer accepted: £107'000
Deposit: £23'000
Mortgage approved for: £84'000
Exchanged: 2/3/16
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Bought first house 10 years ago at age 24. We did have help with deposit though from in laws.0
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I'd say most, but not all, are between 25 and 35 when they first buy. However I'd expect someone who had been living with their parents the whole time to have bought by 30 as they would have saved much more money than renters and surely want their own space.Don't listen to me, I'm no expert!0
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I'm 38 and bought at 25.
I don't understand why anyone my age wouldn't have bought, we had the option to buy before the current boom, with easy credit.
At 25 I thought I was old already as many people had bought by then.
Agreed it's tough now for anyone under 32/33 but for those pushing 40 why leave it this late.0 -
Went for it at 19, with a full time job and no help. But i'm a fan of making my own way regardless.
'These days' people feel it's okay to go and live back home whilst they save, parents/in-laws gifting them deposits etc because the media says that's what everyone is doing. I don't agree or think it's fair on parents from a non financial POV e.g raised their kids and now time for them and their way of life again - which was on hold due to raising the family iyswim.
Whether they agree to the imposition on not, that's what it is and it's unfair, imo.
If you are able, step out into the world and find your future, you will enjoy or learn from the experiences along the way.0 -
I'm 29 and saving for my first place.
Part of me wishes I was money wiser when I was younger.The financial wealth building journey.
Busting this debt before 40. Started in August 2024 with debt = £19,966. August 1st 2025 debt = £0 and busted!
Debt free dairy https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6547320/busting-this-debt-before-40/p1
Savings goals by 31st December 2025;
Emergency Fund: £3,674 / £4000
SIPP: £4,375 / £5000
S&S ISA: £766 / £1000
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I eat far too much chocolate...0 -
23, but that was 43 years ago.0
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My advice is to stop thinking about what other people do and concentrate on what you want to do. There's no such thing as 'normal'.0
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