one day at a time

Perryface

Hi,
I would contact the above for advice re the next step for your sons complaint.

http://www.oiahe.org.uk/

safehouse

Thankyou Perry

Fresh start, clean break as far as DS, and University situation is concerned....he is not wanting to pursue complaint any further....his decision and as the whole situation is causing him added stress its probably for the best. Hopefully Karma will take care of tutor from Hell.People like her always slip up its in their nature and DNA to do so. I hope the letter of complaint and the investigation she was put through has shaken her enough into changing her nasty rotten ways.....but very much doubt it.:mad:
Whew enough about her...............:mad:
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Had a lovely morning out today with my beautiful Dmama.......had naughty subbyway breakfast sandwich yummy.
Quite good on the spendy front today just buying a few essentials at a cost of £3
On the job front, OH landed another contract, local landlord with quite a few properties all walking distance.....needing cleaning and decorating, garden work throughout the summer months.....less hours and money than before and not what I wanted but happy to be back in work for now.:T
Tetley time X:D

Moneywhizz

Sorry I didn't see your post until now, but it sounds like your son has decided to put it behind him. It's annoying that she should get away with this kind of behaviour but as you say she will probably repeat this again. The most important thing in all this, is your son's mental health. If he wants to move on then it's probably for the best. Pursuing a complaint would be stressful for you and him. I hope he finds some other route to achieving his goals.

Bobarella

I am so sorry that your complaint has stalled Safehouse if it was down to you I'm sure you could keep going some how. But as it's your son's choice and he has already struggled with anxiety before, it seems like time to let go.

So hard isn't it. You want to teach your children that they live in a just world where bad people get their commumance but at the same time it takes a lot of energy to fight the man.

Hugs as always.

safehouse

Very wise and welcome words Bobs...hope things are looking up for you at the moment xx

Thanks to perrys info apparently we have 3 years to lodge a further complaint (takes the pressure off big time) so who knows in the next few weeks/months- years DS might have the strength to pass on the complaint "and just when she least expects it" x

Received letter this morning - van insurance renewal due....been with the same company for 3 years and thought we had quite a good deal.....how wrong was I? managed to save a whopping £251 and as I went through toppycashback another £35 into the saving pot.... Wow don't you just love a good deal?
OH on the wagon ...for now.... work seems to be flowing in at a steady rate with few profitable jobs penned in for the next few months, all household DD paid until middle of April and DS starting to settle and smile a lot more after all the horrible stress he has been put through, so things seem on the up............
Now I will worry I am struck by lightning on my way to work at writing such a positive post, never really half glass full type of person ...wish I was....
New job is ok, hard work but rather that than standing around.
Right then Tetley for me then penny's to be made, mortgage to be paid x


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Bobarella

I am so pleased things are more settled. And well done on your great saving on the insurance

I get like you as well. Thinking how I am happy, but then immediately thinking, don't think that because it's bound to go wrong!

Skinnylatte

Made me quite anngry reading your post about that horrid woman, I firmly believe in Karma and she'll get what she deserves. i hope your job is going well x

Bobarella

How's it going Safehouse?

safehouse

Thanks Skinny hope so to.... horrible cockroach of a woman, still makes me very angry :mad:x

After quite a few weeks of stress on stress, things seem to have calmed down Bobs. Hope things are good with yourself.....not had time to catch up with everyone yet.
Myself work is not to bad, working long hours in empty properties, bit boring but on my own terms so plenty of positives:D.
OH is being good....but for how long? who knows, I try to push the thoughts of him going off the rails again out of my mind.............:(
DS has a new found appreciation for his voluntary work after previous incidents and manager is now leaving him in charge of the shop now and again..... giving him a great sense of achievement and value....just the confidence boost he needed.:D
Business has slowed down....but we have had a few good weeks financially, so not concerned as yet.
Mortgage savings looking very healthy..............so happy days for now (long may they reign Lol


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Bobarella

Glad all is well.