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Desperate times, I see no way out of debt

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I have been trying to find some advice on situations similar to mine, but am yet to come across any.

- I have around £10,000 of debt, not including student loan.
- I get paid around £1500 after tax and deductions, pay out over £600 a month towards loans, £5-600 for rent, food and utilities, the rest goes on credit card min payments, mobile, travel to and from work leaving me with barely 2 pennies to rub together.
- I have bad credit and cannot get a debt consolidation loan, though I don't know why, I checked the bad credit loans and checked my credit report. Is it because I already have loans?
- I have a guarantor loan, and 2 payday loans, which could be the reason I can't get a large unsecured loan?
- it's not worth going into a debt management plan because they can't touch my guarantor loan, which is the largest amount. Plus I would still have no money until it was setup and I got a few months into it, even then it would be a small amount saved as I would still be paying for the guarantor loan.
- I can't afford to go bankrupt and debt management companies have advised me against it anyway
- I am a private tenant, sharing with 2 friends, I don't own a car or have anything of value
- I do not have any family that can help me.
- My friends can help me now and again with small amounts, but it's a vicious cycle as I have to pay them back when I get paid, meaning I need to borrow again.
- I can't afford to live in a smaller flat, because it would have to be 1 bed or studio, leaving me to pay all the bills and as I can't live with family this is about the cheapest place I can live right now

It's all very hard to cope with and I feel really alone and having bipolar disorder really makes it hard to keep myself together.

Please help
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  • greensalad
    greensalad Posts: 2,530 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    edited 6 May 2015 at 4:37PM
    Can you post a SOA so we can start looking at where you can cut spending?
  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
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    Hi ThreeTwentySeven
    Really sorry you are in such a pickle for what is not really a huge amount of money.
    Perhaps as the OP suggests if you could post a break down of what you owe and the APR plus min payment next to it that would help people give you advice?
    Try and keep calm. It's really hard when you are stressed but there is always a way out.
    Bob
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  • rockm87
    rockm87 Posts: 847 Forumite
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    welcome, let's get started

    http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php

    complete this and post, and let's really see what's happening.
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  • I used snoozing to calculate my SOA.

    It may seem small, but just to read that my debt isn't that large makes me feel a bit better so thanks for that :)

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 3
    Number of children in household......... 0
    Number of cars owned.................... 0

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 1500
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1500


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 247
    Rent.................................... 325
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 55
    Electricity............................. 27
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 11
    Telephone (land line)................... 5.5
    Mobile phone............................ 16
    TV Licence.............................. 7
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 7
    Internet Services....................... 2.5
    Groceries etc. ......................... 100
    Clothing................................ 0
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 140
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 20
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 963



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 0



    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 0........(0)........0
    Secured Debt.................. 3229.....(247)......49.9
    Total secured & HP debts...... 3229......-.........-


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    barclaycard ...................400.......25........2.52
    capital one ...................1000......48........19.9
    vanquis card...................250.......25........29.9
    pounds to pocket...............284.......147.......277.2
    natwest........................2000......25........10
    118 money......................2353......236.......71.82
    Total unsecured debts..........6287......506.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 1,500
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 963
    Available for debt repayments........... 537
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 506
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 31


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 0
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -3,229
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -6,287
    Net Assets.............................. -9,516


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  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,644 Ambassador
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    Hi,
    You need to be honest with your SOA, you never spend money on clothes ? you never get your hair cut ? £100 a month on food ? i spend that a week nearly, and i live alone.

    Is the guarantor loan included in the "secured" section ?

    Have you considered a debt relief order ?

    Info here :

    http://www.stepchange.org/Howwecanhelpyou/DRODebtrelieforder.aspx

    On the face of it, it looks like you may qualify, you can include the guarantor loan as well, but that will not stop the creditor from chasing the guarantor for payment unfortunately.

    Could the person who stood guarantor for you afford this loan, whilst you were in a DRO ?, it would last for 12 months.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • As you can see it's not looking great. Right now I have no money, we had to pay an ununexpectedly large electricity bill And I still have my mobile and capital one payment to come out of my bank. I don't suppose anyone can suggest something to tide me over until I get paid on 22nd. I can't keep borrowing off of friends, I can't get stuck in that loop and it's going to start annoying them.
  • 3 of us live in the flat, so we spend 300 a month on food, but we budget pretty well for food, Aldi is close by so we shop there. As for the haircuts, I have curly mixed race hair and only trust a family friend to cut it, so that's free :)
  • My guarantor is not happy to take on the payments, as he can't really afford it, he has a mortgage to pay and doesn't want another loan hanging over him. He has a lot more at stake if he struggles with payments.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,644 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    Cant help with the short term, but long term, you should definitely look into a more permanent solution to your money troubles.

    I would strongly suggest looking into a debt relief order, it costs £90, lasts for 12 months, you make no payments, and after 12 months your debts are written off.

    You must have no assets, a car worth up to £1000 is ok, not be a homeowner, and have less than £50 a month left after all payments.

    I would certainly look into it if i was you.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • ellesbellesxxx
    ellesbellesxxx Posts: 1,105 Forumite
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    The reason you won't get another loan is because you are already using a lot of your available credit, by giving you another loan they cannot guarantee you will pay off existing loans, therefore your affordability is stretched further.
    Also, payday loans will flag up on your credit report.


    This is a really tight SOA - is there no way you would think about a debt management plan?
    :rotfl:
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