Picking a classic engagement ring from Blue Nile – opinions/show me your pics

arbrighton

We had discussed what I like as I much prefer the rub over style to claws and OH then surprised me (almost) when he felt the time was right. It is quite a high rubover setting, which he didn't realise but it's perfect for me.

tea_lover

I didn't like my ring. I tried to convince myself over time that I did but I wasn't sorry when I didn't have to wear it anymore.

LilElvis

peachyprice wrote: »

Mine is like this

http://www.rcjewelry.com/Product/Three-Stone-Engagement-Ring-Mounting-with-Marquise-Side-Diamonds-in-14K-White-Gold-03575.aspx

But much flatter, like this from the side (I don't like a high setting)

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=THREE+STONE+ROUND+AND+MARQUISE+CUT+DIAMONDS+ENGAGEMENT+RING&espv=2&biw=1366&bih=643&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=7f0rVbHAJMbSaKSLgYAD&ved=0CAYQ_AUoAQ#imgrc=e81IEnlbihjBnM%253A%3B7WuUerpuxjwEQM%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fwww.theyesgirls.com%252Fwp-content%252Fuploads%252F2012%252F04%252FSasha-Primak-Engagement-Ring-7.png%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Ftheyesgirls.com%252Ffriday-rocks-4%3B400%3B400

0.63 round diamond with 2 x 0.25 marquise set in platinum on a yellow gold band

That's another lovely ring! My sister's is similar, but has trilliant cut stones at the sides. I did try on an exquisite marquise cut solitaire, but while it looked lovely on its own it didn't work with a wedding band at all as the only way for it to "fit" was to have a really high setting so that the stone overhung the band.

This thread has got my jewellery-loving juices flowing! Husband was notified of his bonus on Saturday, so he should be getting very, very worried now, especially given the limit on my credit card!

themull1

I have a three stone ring totaling 1 carat. Each stone has 6 platinum claws, it doesn't look overcrowded. if its a good quality ring, the claws will not snag on things, ive had this ring 22 years and never had a problem.

I personally don't like bezel set, but thats just personal choice.

dirty_magic

Goldiegirl wrote: »

Good point.

I expect the OP knows the personality of his girlfriend, but many women would find it desirable, or even a necessity to be choose their own ring.

I know the OP wants to surprise his girlfriend...... I hope she likes surprises.

Does she even know that marriage is under consideration?

Is it just me that thinks it's what the ring means that's important and not what it looks like? I think it's nice that he's surprising her. I can't help thinking that complaining about your partners choice of ring implies that you care more about the ring than what it symbolises!

OP if it were me I'd be pleased with any of them, I'd just be happy he'd asked!

LilElvis

dirty_magic wrote: »

Is it just me that thinks it's what the ring means that's important and not what it looks like? I think it's nice that he's surprising her. I can't help thinking that complaining about your partners choice of ring implies that you care more about the ring than what it symbolises!

OP if it were me I'd be pleased with any of them, I'd just be happy he'd asked!

Of course it's the meaning behind the ring that is important, along with the thought that has gone into the purchase. This thread is part of that process - the OP wants to try his hardest to choose the "perfect" ring for his future wife and some of us are happy to help if we can

Goldiegirl

The most important thing is the relationship.


We don't know anything about the girlfriend or what her tastes are.


The OP wants to make it a big romantic surprise - is that the sort of thing that she likes?


And will it be a complete surprise ? If they haven't even talked about marriage, would it be a good idea to make this huge romantic gesture with an expensive ring, when she doesn't want to get married yet? She might feel pushed into saying yes.


I still can't help thinking it might be better for the OP to talk to the girlfriend about everything, and if they decide it's time to get engaged, choose a ring together.

dirty_magic

LilElvis wrote: »

Of course it's the meaning behind the ring that is important, along with the thought that has gone into the purchase. This thread is part of that process - the OP wants to try his hardest to choose the "perfect" ring for his future wife and some of us are happy to help if we can

Oh I understand why he's asking, my post was more in relation to everyone saying let her pick her own because they wouldn't like someone to pick for them!

GoldenShadow

dirty_magic wrote: »

Oh I understand why he's asking, my post was more in relation to everyone saying let her pick her own because they wouldn't like someone to pick for them!

See, normally, I am not a huge jewellery fan. Not because I don't think its pretty, but because I really don't like my hands so bracelets/watches/rings are not something I wear very much. As a result, I'd really rather a ring that I adore else I think I would be less keen to wear that, too. I like the thought of having a ring for something such as being engaged, but if I didn't really really really like it I think it would be inclined to stay in the box.

And I'm a control freak. I don't like other people making decisions for me and thinking they know what's best. I prefer to be asked.

Turtle

Mine is a 0.5 carat 6 claw setting in white gold. The claws are tiny, I've looked closely at it whilst reading this thread and they don't impact on the stone in any way. I've been wearing it 12 years and it doesn't catch on anything, I've never had any problem.

I don't like those bezel set at all.

My and hubby chose the ring together, as it happened we picked the same one but I'd hate to wear a ring I didn't like. Regardless of how much you love the person, you want to love the ring as well. You don't want to have to wear a ring you don't really want people to see! I love mine, I'd still pick the same today.