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  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    But if you cancel April it will be another month of waiting for DF :( - and what's more, you'll miss out on all the reduced price chocolate bunnies!


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    But if you cancel April it will be another month of waiting for DF :( - and what's more, you'll miss out on all the reduced price chocolate bunnies!


    Rosa xx
    You know you had me at 'reduced priced chocolate bunnies', right?

    I hereby declare that April is back on!
  • Aaleigha
    Aaleigha Posts: 615 Forumite
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    SO glad April is back on
    it gives me another month before I am officially a year older :)

    Nora I know you like chocolate
    I told everyone I like chocolate too much and did not want any for easter
    so they all bought me chocolate so I am going to gift you a thorntons egg
    it does however say love you mum on it - hope you can cope

    I have more eggs for everyone shall I pop them on the table over there in the corner

    right have a great day tomorrow
    and I love your ready meal - I have a lot of those types of ping meals all ready and waiting :)
    Emergency fund £10,000
    Several categories with savings in
    Cars, house maintenance, birthdays
    Etc I have about 10 categories

    Really happy to be debt free after being a compulsive spender
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Evening.


    So I've got a few bits and pieces on ebay at the moment - including a designer something, which is almost brand new and rather than go through the auction hell, I've popped a buy it now price on which is a huge bargain for anyone looking for said something.


    So I was a bit flabbergasted when someone asked me what the lowest price was that I would take for said item. I politely responded that the buy it now price - which includes p&p - is the lowest I can go. I should say that I'd researched the price before setting it, and it's got double figures in watchers at the mo. so I'm not planning on budging.


    And then I went from flabbergasted to being a bit impressed - here was a lady literally living the MSE way. She'd seen something she wanted, at a price she didn't want to pay and took a chance on being able to negotiate a more acceptable price.


    And then I went from being impressed to being a bit annoyed as I had several more messages from her asking me to contact her if I changed my mind, and setting out the amount she was prepared to pay, which would be quite a bit less.


    And then I went from being annoyed to being a little bit sad - because along with the impressive negotiation technique, and a bit of overkill, she's given me a fair bit of back story and it sounds like she's having a tough time. It's made me think that what she really needs, isn't a nice designer something - it's just a hug and someone to talk to.


    So I'm sending out a virtual hug and a cuppa to every one that needs it today, especially if you've just sent 6 messages to a random stranger on ebay.


    Nora.xx
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Ok, we're up to 11 messages, so I'm back to being annoyed.
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    You know you had me at 'reduced priced chocolate bunnies', right?

    I hereby declare that April is back on!

    Phew :D

    And then I went from being annoyed to being a little bit sad - because along with the impressive negotiation technique, and a bit of overkill, she's given me a fair bit of back story and it sounds like she's having a tough time. It's made me think that what she really needs, isn't a nice designer something - it's just a hug and someone to talk to.


    So I'm sending out a virtual hug and a cuppa to every one that needs it today, especially if you've just sent 6 messages to a random stranger on ebay.


    Nora.xx


    You're a very kind soul Nora. And absolutely right - though we've probably all made that mistake and it's part of how we've ended up on this forum... at least now we have learnt that lesson.

    Virtual GF lemon cake to go with the cuppa for anyone who wants it :)


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    You're a very kind soul Nora. And absolutely right - though we've probably all made that mistake and it's part of how we've ended up on this forum... at least now we have learnt that lesson.

    Virtual GF lemon cake to go with the cuppa for anyone who wants it :)


    Rosa xx
    *snort* I'm not that kind. I've just had to repress the urge to double the price of said item. :D
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Aaleigha wrote: »
    ....I am going to gift you a thorntons egg it does however say love you mum on it - hope you can cope

    I have more eggs for everyone shall I pop them on the table over there in the corner
    OFFICIAL NOTICE: We are sorry to announce that there are no spare eggs on the table for anyone.

    In unrelated news, Nora appears to be sweating chocolate and wearing an iced 'Love you Mum' sign on her forehead.
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    *snort* I'm not that kind. I've just had to repress the urge to double the price of said item. :D

    :rotfl:glad to hear it was worrying you were going to desert us for sainthood


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    :rotfl:glad to hear it was worrying you were going to desert us for sainthood


    Rosa xx
    Never! My actual first thought was 'Oh God, a sob story to get what she wants...this is all because of those darn* talent shows on tv'. Then I figured I was being too harsh... mebbes....


    *yep, 'darn' was the word. Uhuh.
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