This girl wants me to go see "fifty shades of grey" with her

kingslayer

I am also feeling a bit weird about her going to the cinema. I don't mean that in a controlling sense (seeing as we aren't exclusive) but maybe in a protective way and there might be loads of creeps about. This is feeling really weird for me right now and never felt like this; i don't like it.

74jax

kingslayer wrote: »

I am also feeling a bit weird about her going to the cinema. I don't mean that in a controlling sense (seeing as we aren't exclusive) but maybe in a protective way and there might be loads of creeps about. This is feeling really weird for me right now and never felt like this; i don't like it.

Oh. Dear. God.

atolaas

74jax wrote: »

Oh. Dear. God.

Well said. Kingslayer...go and see the film with this girl. You're overthinking things in a major way.

Ames

There'll be less creeps about her at the cinema than there were at the restaurent.

kingslayer

74jax wrote: »

Oh. Dear. God.

That came out awfully wrong! :doh: you have to understand that i haven't actually been in a real relationship, only casual dating, and i might be getting attached to quickly. I need to reel myself in a little, relax and tread carefully because I haven't felt this way before. However, all the signs from her so far have been really positive and I think she feels the same but I have too much pride to ask

purpleshoes_2

kingslayer wrote: »

I am also feeling a bit weird about her going to the cinema. I don't mean that in a controlling sense (seeing as we aren't exclusive) but maybe in a protective way and there might be loads of creeps about. This is feeling really weird for me right now and never felt like this; i don't like it.

This is from the person who used to talk to women in the street and say he liked their shoes

Come on. You feel weird about some girl going to the cinema

Either you are very very bored and needing attention or you are just trolling.

LilElvis

kingslayer wrote: »

I am also feeling a bit weird about her going to the cinema. I don't mean that in a controlling sense (seeing as we aren't exclusive) but maybe in a protective way and there might be loads of creeps about. This is feeling really weird for me right now and never felt like this; i don't like it.

For heaven's sake! She's going to the cinema with friends, not a midnight stroll through Soweto! She's a grown woman who, almost certainly, has managed to deal with "creeps" before.

Get a grip!

74jax

kingslayer wrote: »

That came out awfully wrong! :doh: you have to understand that i haven't actually been in a real relationship, only casual dating, and i might be getting attached to quickly. I need to reel myself in a little, relax and tread carefully because I haven't felt this way before. However, all the signs from her so far have been really positive and I think she feels the same but I have too much pride to ask

Look, we know you don't want a relationship, we know you do want a relationship. We know you want to go out with her, but that you then worry going out with her will make her think you are going out with her.

We get you don't want to see 50 shades with her, we get you don't want her to see 50 shades with anyone else.

We know you sleep with women, then don't like them any more because they slept with you.

We know all this because we've read it, time and time again.

Jagraf

74jax wrote: »

Look, we know you don't want a relationship, we know you do want a relationship. We know you want to go out with her, but that you then worry going out with her will make her think you are going out with her.

We get you don't want to see 50 shades with her, we get you don't want her to see 50 shades with anyone else.

We know you sleep with women, then don't like them any more because they slept with you.

We know all this because we've read it, time and time again.

Fantastic summary. It means I can join in without reading the whole thread

kingslayer

74jax wrote: »

Look, we know you don't want a relationship, we know you do want a relationship. We know you want to go out with her, but that you then worry going out with her will make her think you are going out with her.

We get you don't want to see 50 shades with her, we get you don't want her to see 50 shades with anyone else.

We know you sleep with women, then don't like them any more because they slept with you.

We know all this because we've read it, time and time again.

:rotfl: I think you're right. I need to take some time away from the forum because I am only rehashing what's been said before.

Thank you all for the advice :beer: