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Good morning.

Hugs (((FC))) - I am so so sorry to hear about the awful time you are currently having. I pray that things improve for you and your family soon.

Have a lovely day all.

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David. wrote: »

Nerfy dont give DS1 any bleach to drink

Good point :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

David.

Nannylala wrote: »

Perranlady in answer to your post I don't know how others feel on this but everyone has a cross to bear in life some more difficult than others and I think the thread in its self provides so much support at times like this you could not ask for or buy anything better :A

Enterprise_1701C wrote: »

It is a lovely thought but I really do not think FC would want anything like that to happen, we all struggle at times, we have all had our problems, this thread is what we need, and the thoughts on it are what we come here for, we come for mutual support and laughter.

Forget all that rubbish, lets have the important things in life are udis still good

floydy

FC....what an unbearable ongoing situation for u all...ur OH's mental illness is a nightmare, why isn't he getting the best supportive care to help him deal with this? and what support are u and ur family getting? Sending u a big bear hug, u are such a strong person (although at times like this we do wonder where we get the strength from)...don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help for u and ur family...sometimes we have to be pushy...xx

wendyak

David. wrote: »

Nerfy dont give DS1 any bleach to drink

Nutty Nerfy ....and yes David Udis still good for me Monday x

izzy65

fairclaire wrote: »

I've not been posting lately because life has been pretty terrible

Last Friday my OH decided that life would be ended better by drinking a bottle of weedkiller. Needless to say he woke up in hospital and not in heaven as he hoped and we are climbing the mountain again.

My range of emotions this week:

Sadness - how can someone feel that utterly desperate?

Guilt - Did I not notice something? How did it come to this? Why is my loved one laid on a life support machine? I sent him away

Anger - How could he do this to me and our children? We love him every day and he wants to leave us

Despair- Are we really that bad? I have spent 7 years climbing the mountain that is his depression and today I'm back at the bottom.

Love - I love him and I never want him to leave this earth feeling unloved.

Desperation - I SO want him to be ok in the desperate hope he feels happiness again one day

Im struggling folks How do you deal with it and keep going? I watched the 'young wives ' programme on ITV tonight. I felt for them awfully but at least they are free to build a new life. No disrespect to what they've lost but I have lost everything and it's still here

We need a tissue glitch

I haven't spoken to my husband in a week. He was in an induced coma the last time I saw him.

I have had loads of PMs too many to answer. I am seeing him tomorrow and we will see what happens. Wish me luck because I feel I will need it. Thanks to all who have shown concern :A

Oh FC I am joining in with your tears, life is so unfair just wish I could wave a magic wand and make it all better , I wish you strength to keep going and send love you and yours xx

never_too_old

fairclaire wrote: »

I've not been posting lately because life has been pretty terrible

Last Friday my OH decided that life would be ended better by drinking a bottle of weedkiller. Needless to say he woke up in hospital and not in heaven as he hoped and we are climbing the mountain again.

My range of emotions this week:

Sadness - how can someone feel that utterly desperate?

Guilt - Did I not notice something? How did it come to this? Why is my loved one laid on a life support machine? I sent him away

Anger - How could he do this to me and our children? We love him every day and he wants to leave us

Despair- Are we really that bad? I have spent 7 years climbing the mountain that is his depression and today I'm back at the bottom.

Love - I love him and I never want him to leave this earth feeling unloved.

Desperation - I SO want him to be ok in the desperate hope he feels happiness again one day

Im struggling folks How do you deal with it and keep going? I watched the 'young wives ' programme on ITV tonight. I felt for them awfully but at least they are free to build a new life. No disrespect to what they've lost but I have lost everything and it's still here

We need a tissue glitch

I haven't spoken to my husband in a week. He was in an induced coma the last time I saw him.

I have had loads of PMs too many to answer. I am seeing him tomorrow and we will see what happens. Wish me luck because I feel I will need it. Thanks to all who have shown concern :A

Oh FC don't know what to say.depresion is so hard on everyone around the sufferer my oh is / has got it but not to the extent you are experiencing .Thinking of you and hope all goes well today.


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shione

FC. My thoughts are with you. Won`t go into details but I agree with other peoples comments regarding sympathy but do not like to press the `thanks` button, doesn`t seem right. Be as strong as you can, you can`t do anymore but know people on here think a lot of you.

fairclaire

floydy wrote: »

FC....what an unbearable ongoing situation for u all...ur OH's mental illness is a nightmare, why isn't he getting the best supportive care to help him deal with this? and what support are u and ur family getting? Sending u a big bear hug, u are such a strong person (although at times like this we do wonder where we get the strength from)...don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help for u and ur family...sometimes we have to be pushy...xx

good morning

The truth is that he has had the very best of care. And lots of it. Anyone with experience of this stuff will know that help can only go so far and that you have to use the help to help yourself. Whatever goes on in his head doesn't let him do that.

I can't believe how negative I'm being :(it's not like me at all.

Thanks for all the messages. I'm heading off soon to see what can get sorted out.

in the midst of all the chaos I'm comforted by DS2 practical attitude to everything his biggest concern over the last week is that we ran out of kitkats...........that sulky face pained by having to force himself to eat a penguin instead has been the biggest laugh I've had in ages!