How long is reasonable to wait for item?

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On 20th Dec I bought an item on eBay that was supposed to be couriered to me. The item was originally collection only but I contacted the buyer and they were happy to organise and send it through My Hermes if I paid the costs. She said she would let me know when the item had been picked up but I haven't heard anything since. I messaged her yesterday morning but haven't had a reply.

I'm sure they've been tied up with Xmas but would appreciate being kept informed as it's an item I need (or should I say needed) quite urgently. Is sending a message once a day until I receive a reply considered too much?

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  • RFW
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    Charliezoo wrote: »
    On 20th Dec I bought an item on eBay that was supposed to be couriered to me. The item was originally collection only but I contacted the buyer and they were happy to organise and send it through My Hermes if I paid the costs. She said she would let me know when the item had been picked up but I haven't heard anything since. I messaged her yesterday morning but haven't had a reply.

    I'm sure they've been tied up with Xmas but would appreciate being kept informed as it's an item I need (or should I say needed) quite urgently. Is sending a message once a day until I receive a reply considered too much?
    Get their phone number and call.
    There are several reasons for no replies, so not quite worth panicking yet given the holidays.
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  • soolin
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    Hopefully it wasn't being sent by Citylink!

    It is still early for many couriers to have delivered, but I would have expected the seller to at least confirm item was sent and possibly send you the tracking number as well. I agree with the above- phone them.
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  • Feral_Moon
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    Did it turn up eventually?
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