NOT BUYING IT! 2015 - A consumer holiday

mrsscattercushion

Very late on board.......any room for stragglers??? :A

Reason for joining? I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and at present it is not well controlled. I've just given notice on my very stressful, but well paid job, to take a "career break" and see if can get my health under control. However I was the main breadwinner in our family, with hubby being made redundant and spending last couple of months looking after me and project managing the renovations on our home...

He's due to start work again on 12th Jan and although we have savings and his redundancy package, things will change markedly in our income, so whilst I'm at home, I need every penny to "work" for me, especially as this condition is very unpredictable...

So here's to the New Year, new challenges....let's set sail :beer:

Karmacat

lobbyludd wrote: »

I've thought about it a lot and won't be joining you on the no supermarket challenge. It wouldn't simplify my life, wouldn't save me money and I end up buying more "aspirational" stuff if I go to more independent shops than if i do my tried and tested online once a month order.

I'm not either, lobbyludd - I read the lovely comment after you'd posted (and oh dear, I can't remember who it was from now) but it was perfect, about horses for courses, basically.

Slowdown wrote: »

Personal request from Captain Slowdown

It would be great if you could stay on board. People in trouble are our speciality and lifeboats will be launched in emergency situations. Never feel you do not belong or are not wanted as all hands are needed for a successful launch. No sailor should feel a castaway.

Kindest regards and respect
Slowdown:)

I read the comment and I was a bit confused, but I'm worried that it means what you're saying it means ... hope you'll stay, Mrs Lurcherwalker.

kittie wrote: »

I got rid of chutney in 3 kilners this morning, I was on a roll. The jars are in the dishwasher and I will re-use them when dry, plus another 4 from the shed and all for re-siting my medicinal herbs. Next job is to get 12 x 1 lb jam jars out of the shed and give them to dds with new lids and the marmalade tins and then I am stopping to carry on with spinning. I only do heavyweight stuff until lunchtime as I get up around 6. I always relax in the afternoons, I mean I craft or read or do paperwork

Kittie, I love the sound of what you're doing!

I'm catching up on the basics after being ill: tidying, which has taken quite a few days, as I've felt better; I've also been chucking a lot in the washing machine, giving things a bit of a spring clean as I've been stuck here, and putting a few bits on ebay. I really want my house to feel more comfortable.

mumto2monkeys_2

mrsscattercushion wrote: »

Very late on board.......any room for stragglers??? :A

Reason for joining? I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and at present it is not well controlled. I've just given notice on my very stressful, but well paid job, to take a "career break" and see if can get my health under control. However I was the main breadwinner in our family, with hubby being made redundant and spending last couple of months looking after me and project managing the renovations on our home...

He's due to start work again on 12th Jan and although we have savings and his redundancy package, things will change markedly in our income, so whilst I'm at home, I need every penny to "work" for me, especially as this condition is very unpredictable...

So here's to the New Year, new challenges....let's set sail :beer:

I'm another fibro - I'm not able to give up work, but joining this ship in order to try and get a financial cushion that might allow different choices in the future.

It is hard! I hope that you get the R&R you need. I'm going to make my well-being more of a focus this year. My target is eat right, try relaxation techniques and get some exercise each day for a few minutes. I feel ridiculous at the moment and worried if I don't get a grip, I'm not going to be able to move in the future.

Good luck .

csh_2

I live near the Kelpies, we go there fairly often as its free and my youngest really loves them. We went along on the 27th, place was heaving.

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The good thing about this thread is were all learning from each other. I'm picking out bits people have written and either discarding, modifying or using the ideas of others. I've learnt so much....
I definitely won't stop shopping in a supermarket. I work in one!! And when needs must I always buy YS food. I shop as and when use relavent coupons and codes as well as having subsidised meals through the works canteen (which is amazing for good home cooked food where roasts are under £1.50). No cheap food served there.
I wish I could help local shops but needs must and I've cut my shopping/food bill down to under £15 a week.
I've sorted out utilitiy bills. Even turned off my heating when I've had to to save money.
I've made less journeys in my car (need this for work).
Had showers instead of baths to save electric and water.
Cut down on everything I could without feeling I'm going without.
I can't remember who posted it but I agree with not depriving yourself and don't save best for best.
I've made baths luxurious by having soft warm towels candles and bubblebaths. Odd glass of wine and chocs with music playing on my old phone via utube.
Its the free things people take for granted.
I've been frugal for over 3 years and now have a safety cushion of funds. No CCards. No debts. But will still continue to be frugal but not deprive myself whilst doing it.
Happy New Year To You All :beer:

peony40

mrsscattercushion wrote: »

Very late on board.......any room for stragglers??? :A

Reason for joining? I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and at present it is not well controlled. I've just given notice on my very stressful, but well paid job, to take a "career break" and see if can get my health under control. However I was the main breadwinner in our family, with hubby being made redundant and spending last couple of months looking after me and project managing the renovations on our home...

He's due to start work again on 12th Jan and although we have savings and his redundancy package, things will change markedly in our income, so whilst I'm at home, I need every penny to "work" for me, especially as this condition is very unpredictable...

So here's to the New Year, new challenges....let's set sail :beer:

You have my sympathies. I am another fibro sufferer. It was undiagnosed for years but struggled through working full time, then part time and then had to give up work entirely 4 years ago this coming April. With a new doctor and not working it has helped me manage the condition better and I hope it does for you too.

lilian1977

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mrsscattercushion

mumto2monkeys wrote: »

I'm another fibro - I'm not able to give up work, but joining this ship in order to try and get a financial cushion that might allow different choices in the future.

It is hard! I hope that you get the R&R you need. I'm going to make my well-being more of a focus this year. My target is eat right, try relaxation techniques and get some exercise each day for a few minutes. I feel ridiculous at the moment and worried if I don't get a grip, I'm not going to be able to move in the future.

Good luck .

Hi there, lovely to have you as an understanding ship-mate!
I've had chronic pain and fatigue for over a year and all manner of tests tried and meds combos, only diagnosed a couple of weeks ago. Hubby and I have spoken about our options for many months, as my job was very demanding, commuting not great and having an unpredictable condition with an unpredictable job was sending my health spiraling down.

I'm hoping this break will allow me to o all of what you're aiming for and it to be more under control to allow me to return to work in the future, although might be a change of career....we'll see.

I'm blessed with 2 understanding GP's, great family and friend support so i'm trying to remain hopeful!! x

mrsscattercushion

peony40 wrote: »

You have my sympathies. I am another fibro sufferer. It was undiagnosed for years but struggled through working full time, then part time and then had to give up work entirely 4 years ago this coming April. With a new doctor and not working it has helped me manage the condition better and I hope it does for you too.

Thank you..this year has been full of tests and trying to work, but seeing it wasn't really doing me any good. I'm lucky i can take this break and hoping, with good GP support, as well as family and friends, I'll get to a better place with it and hopefully return to work.

Take care x

mumto2monkeys_2

peony40 wrote: »

You have my sympathies. I am another fibro sufferer. It was undiagnosed for years but struggled through working full time, then part time and then had to give up work entirely 4 years ago this coming April. With a new doctor and not working it has helped me manage the condition better and I hope it does for you too.

Please can I ask what sorts of things do you do to manage it?

I'm 35 now and it scares me how seized up I am on a morning. I'm also constantly in pain, but I'm used to it so I tolerate it, if that makes sense? The hardest thing recently has not being able to get proper sleep. I've piled on weight as I'm so tired, I just eat to try and compensate to keep me going. I work FT still at the moment - daft hours - as I am main earner and we owe money, so don't feel I can stop.

I'm worried it might stop me though...

I think I've always had it, but dealing with extreme stress caused by DD being seriously ill and still trying to work through it with employers who heaped more stress on was what tipped me over the edge.