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Entering Competitions With "Sympathy Votes"

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  • don't even get me started about twitter sympathy competition posts when they don't even ask for a reply just a Follow and RT now they do my head in
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  • FizzyPip
    FizzyPip Posts: 101 Forumite
    I think 'compers' are a companies worst nightmare...just saying.
  • Pinkzie
    Pinkzie Posts: 153 Forumite
    edited 24 November 2014 at 11:50PM
    I don't mind if people see my opinion as plenty have to see what they have to say when they comment 'sympathy' stories on light hearted competitions. It's hard to avoid seeing them at times and it works both ways, maybe if they don't want to feel judged they should be more careful to not get too personal or realise that every single person entering has troubles, no one should be more entitled to receive a prize based on how bad they have it. Anyway, a lot of the time it is a judged competition and they know what they say will be read by the promoter and everyone else, people will have different reactions.

    It might feel good for them to write those things but as I said everyone has their troubles and worries and ways of dealing with it. I'd pick a creative winner or funniest every time if it was judged competition :)

    Each to their own though :D
  • AubreyMac
    AubreyMac Posts: 1,723 Forumite
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    You know, I feel exactly the same when people without children get slated for entering 'family' holidays.

    If it's not compulsary to have kids to enter, then it's fair game.
  • CheCazzo
    CheCazzo Posts: 559 Forumite
    I don't judge people who enter so called 'family' holidays. Whatever the make up of your family - it is YOUR family. If your family is you + 3 kids or you + o/h and 1 kid or you + o/h and no kids or whatever - the unit is your family and who is anyone to say otherwise? Stuff and nonsense. The days of 2.4 kids were over long ago!
  • Moneybot
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    Going back to sympathy votes, the nominations for this one

    https://www.facebook.com/lidluk/posts/789783201079500

    Are laying it on a bit thick at points and I'm not sure I would want someone to list my woes so I could win a surprise from Lidl.
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  • We have a had couple 'tell us why you should' comps within our company - I asked the boss about this and she said that it was a random draw (random.org) but that the comments made her chuckle.......
    Back to comping after a couple of years overseas
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  • i hate sympathy posts sorry if that offends anyone but the last thing you should be doing is using your loss of i presume family-to win something

    think its quite sick
    What goes around-comes around
  • cagsd
    cagsd Posts: 7,664 Forumite
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    I can't stand these types of posts and don't normally bother even looking at them, never mind entering!!
    As a family, we've had a really sh** year with one bad thing after another happening, but I wouldn't dream about posting any of it on FB to try and win some toiletries or a toy!! As has been said, everyone has problems, we just don't all broadcast them!!
  • I hate them. I always feel like it's begging and embarrassing.
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