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            I think she's going to have a hard job with this one. As others have said where is his address for his GP, electoral role etc. Having his car insurance there also doesn't look good either. Unless she can show he has another address as his home, which he doesn't, then I think they will find that that is his home and they are considered as living as husband and wife.Lost my soulmate so life is empty.
 I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
 Diana Gabaldon, Outlander0
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            So when and how did she add him to her claim?
 What benefit is it?
 Is she aware that by voluntarily adding him to her claim, she will lose her benefit and possibly have to payback months, years of payments as far back as the relationship started out.?
 Where is he registered to vote? bank statements, credit cards? his employers will have an address for him too,
 When did he start to put her address down as his correspondence address for all these things?0
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            He LIVES with your Mum and works away, caught.0
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            he did rent a room in a shared house but he didn't see the need for the room as he was only there a maximum of 2 days a week sometimes less.
 You say it all here. He didn't live in his lorry before, he had a place to go to and he stopped because that place is now your mum's. He is saving rent on that room, but doesn't think he should contribute towards the use of the place at your mum. You say he comes back with a bag, I bet full of clothes that needs washing, in your mum's washing machine.
 He is a user and that's all there is to it. If he didn't want to move with your mum, he should have kept his room and register everything to it, then your mum would have been fine.0
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            So presumably he is paying a council tax element on his business rates at the yard as he lives there?
 If he is problem solved.0
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