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when young children are off for half term...

what can mums to if they have to work and have the child/ren on their hands...? i have no grand parents or anyone in the family that really helps.
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  • liney
    liney Posts: 5,122 Forumite
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    Use annual leave. Use unpaid parental leave. Use a nursery or a playscheme depending on child's age.
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
  • Deals_2
    Deals_2 Posts: 2,410 Forumite
    i thought nursery schools was really for under 5s? am self employed so using annual leave would not be useful. more information on playschemes...? thanks for your input.
    liney wrote: »
    Use annual leave. Use unpaid parental leave. Use a nursery or a playscheme depending on child's age.
  • liney
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    Local councils run playschemes from Community Centres and Leisure Centres generally. Your council website would be a good place to start to find out more.

    The Nurserys in my area take children upto 11 on their drop off/pick up school runs, so i would think they also make provisions in holidays too.

    How old are your kiddy winks anyway ?
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
  • black-saturn
    black-saturn Posts: 13,935 Forumite
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    You have to look after them. Your children are your responsibility, not anyone elses.
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  • liney
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    It is also her responsibility to feed them by earning money. There is nothing wrong with ensuring your children are cared for by qualified persons when the need arises if family are not available.

    I think i spot a high horse trotting by....
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
  • skintas_2
    skintas_2 Posts: 1,679 Forumite
    is there a friend you could swap with you have hers one week while she works, take week off work and vice versa. or know a friend or neighbour who will look after them for you.try local council they do playschemes, will take tax credits as payments
    i will be debt free, i will
  • pipkin71
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    Deals wrote: »
    what can mums to if they have to work and have the child/ren on their hands...? i have no grand parents or anyone in the family that really helps.

    Would you have a local church that runs playschemes? These are very common where I live. Some parks also have playschemes.

    How old are the children. Are there any stay at home mums with children the same age who would be willing to look after them for a few pounds. Mothers on benefits are allowed to earn £23 a week without it affecting their benefits, as long as they declare it.
    You have to look after them. Your children are your responsibility, not anyone elses.

    The poster was looking for advice Black Saturn - not criticism!

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    Pipkin xxx
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  • Josie_Jump_3
    Josie_Jump_3 Posts: 367 Forumite
    You have to look after them. Your children are your responsibility, not anyone elses.

    So, you would prefer the OP to not go to work & rely on the state to pay for everything?
  • inkie
    inkie Posts: 2,609 Forumite
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    OK - if you are self-employed, am I right in thinking that you would have a greater degree of flexibility on your working hours? I am a minister, and so during the S. Hols I have my too with me (8 and 11). They come to work with me, but anything that is not suitable for them to come to takes place on an evening when my hubby (their Dad) is back from his secular job.

    Is there any chance that you could adjust your working hours so that you worked in the evening?
  • black-saturn
    black-saturn Posts: 13,935 Forumite
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    It's a case of working more when they are at school and booking time off when they are off. I don't have any partner, family, childminders or anyone else who helps but I still manage to work.
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