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Three choices in life; Give up, Give in or Give all you've got!!

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  • £8 in Mr T vouchers arrived, so used those to get some bits of shopping to help see us through. Also went to Costc0 with my Sister to scope out what they sell ahead of doing the buffet for my party. Hated walking round seeing the bargains knowing I had NO money, but loved seeing my Sister as it’s been quite a while.

    Didn’t sleep very well last night worrying about money :(.
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,891 Ambassador
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    Sorry to hear that you dident sleep well Lucky :(

    Would it maybe help to pop up your SOA to see if we can help?
    Do you keep a spending diary?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,178 Forumite
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    Would your family club together for the party - instead of presents maybe?

    When my old hairdressers closed and I had to find a new one, I took the opportunity to start colouring my hair at home. Can't see the difference to be honest and it only costs me £5.

    Sorry to hear money worries are giving you sleepless nights. I remember that feeling only too well from when my two were at school, it was a real struggle :(
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Thanks to some [STRIKE]meddling[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]interference [/STRIKE] help from my Sister, my Mum and MiL are now helping to pay for the DJ for my party :T:j. Something less to worry about :D.

    We’ve had a NSD. Not difficult when you have nothing to spend, but an achievement all the same.
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,891 Ambassador
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    Good news on the DJ :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Such an up and down day!!

    Couldn’t sleep last night again, and discovered in the early hours that my bank account had gone 6p overdrawn :mad:. Text my sister asking if she would transfer a couple of quid in for me to save me a trip to the bank and I’d pay her back on Friday. Checked my account this morning and she's paid £50 in with instructions to keep it :A:A.

    Then Grandma had a funny turn in hospital and was transferred to Coronary care :eek::(. They put her on morphine as her BP super low and we are waiting to hear from the doctor but she looks better tonight :T.

    I’m tired and feeling quite emotional. Pleased to have such a lovely family, but hoping everyone is going to be ok Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • WannabeFree
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    So sorry to hear things are hard PLMBL.

    I hope things pick up soon, when is your birthday?

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Sun_Addict
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    You have a lovely family Lucky :)

    Hope grandma continues to get better - what a scare though!

    Take care xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Thanks both Xx

    WF, my birthday is 11th September with my party the Friday before Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,891 Ambassador
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    Hope things are on the up soon :(
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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