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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    All good things that will help in the medium/long term though, beanie.


    Happy Friday :):):)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
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    Token gifts are fine when they're adults, they understand. Loved the photos on FB you're looking fab!
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,249 Forumite
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    Yes you are looking fab, I agree the photos were lovely xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • I'm with Pooky, token gifts are fine. Or they should be fine! Honestly, the important thing is to mark the day and show you care. Parental love is not defined by the size of your wallet, you just need to look at the tabloids to know that.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,149 Ambassador
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    Token gifts are indeed fine.
    I gave up competing with ex DH years ago!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,149 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Quite stiff still & it is a bit of a struggle to get moving.
    The weather here is very gloomy & very wet.

    Here's hoping we all have a great September :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,149 Ambassador
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    Pooky wrote: »
    Token gifts are fine when they're adults, they understand. Loved the photos on FB you're looking fab!

    Thanks :)

    Today I am not looking at my best!
    Even at my age my hair gets very greasy & really needs washed every day.
    Washed yesterday & is hanging like a limp rag.
    Only got dressed because my mum was popping in!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,149 Ambassador
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    Yes you are looking fab, I agree the photos were lovely xx

    Thank you :) xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,149 Ambassador
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    michelle09 wrote: »
    I'm with Pooky, token gifts are fine. Or they should be fine! Honestly, the important thing is to mark the day and show you care. Parental love is not defined by the size of your wallet, you just need to look at the tabloids to know that.


    This is very true :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,249 Forumite
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    I have to wash my hair every day too Beanie. Not because it's greasy, it's a massive frizz ball in the morning and I mean massive - I think someone back combs it during the night.

    Talking of token gifts, a friend of mine gives a small bottle of wine and a tiny box of chocs as presents and they go down better than anything big.
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
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