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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.
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Echo the others
Thinking of you today
x“Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”0 -
Hope today has gone as well as it could XxDebts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
Best win so far - holiday to Florida0 -
Well today.
Very emotional.
A true celebration.
Selfishly I felt more alone today than I have in a long time.
Lots of couples and families supporting supporting eachother.
A look, a touch.
Me on my own.
Then I phoned my poor mum & I cried.
I know how much she worries & that was wrong of me.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
Then the joy of the dentist & two fillings for the price of one.
My nose is still numb.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
It was not wrong of you to tell your Mum how you feel. You would always want DS to confide in you, and your Mum will feel the same.
Massive hugs XxDebts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
Best win so far - holiday to Florida0 -
It's not wrong to ring your mum Beanie - no matter how old us daughters and sons are we're still our mums little ones. Bet she worries more when you don't get in touch - I do with mine.
Sorry it was such a hard day.January spends - £587.580 -
Well today.
Very emotional.
A true celebration.
Selfishly I felt more alone today than I have in a long time.
Lots of couples and families supporting supporting eachother.
A look, a touch.
Me on my own.
Then I phoned my poor mum & I cried.
I know how much she worries & that was wrong of me.Then the joy of the dentist & two fillings for the price of one.
My nose is still numb.
What a horrible and upsetting day you've had Beanie, you deserve some wine to cheer you up, I hope you've got some.
Re the meeting, don't worry about something that hasn't happened yet, it's a waste of your life force... and it may not be as bad as you think.
Thinking of you.Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS0 -
please-let-me-be-lucky wrote: »It was not wrong of you to tell your Mum how you feel. You would always want DS to confide in you, and your Mum will feel the same.
Massive hugs XxIt's not wrong to ring your mum Beanie - no matter how old us daughters and sons are we're still our mums little ones. Bet she worries more when you don't get in touch - I do with mine.
Sorry it was such a hard day.
I totally agree, I wish my DC would confude in me when they were upset. That's what mums are for.Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS0 -
Thank you both.
My mum is now in her late 70's and I do try very very hard not to worry her.
Anyway, DS had sent a text & then I phoned my mum & just howled.
Oh dear, oh dear.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
In other news I have lost one of my favourite scarfs.
Went to wear it today as it is dark gray & goes with my coat(which I very rarely wear) & i couldent find it.
Bah.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0
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