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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    I love that combination...clearly we are twins Beanie :rotfl:

    Sounds a great night...very glad for you x
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  • Bubblesmum
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Was at a 50th last night.
    Can I just say that Edinburgh gin raspberry & prosecco are rather nice!!

    OOOh that sounds rather yum, I tried rhubarb gin at the weekend which was also yummy.....
    As a dear MSE friend says “keep plodding” or
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  • Karmacat
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    Bubblesmum wrote: »
    I am in awe that you were able to do graduation day with all that walking and standing without using a mobility scooter/wheelchair, and so not surprised that your back is so sore and you are having such trouble with indigestion. I find my digestive system is really affected when due to my gait, too much standing and falling. Also being extremely tired... take care of yourself.
    I've noticed the link too, recently.
    beanielou wrote: »
    Was at a 50th last night.
    Can I just say that Edinburgh gin raspberry & prosecco are rather nice!!
    We will not talk about the bench we were sitting on that broke & we all ended up on the wet grass.
    You could not make it up :eek: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    We will not talk about our efforts to get up off said grass :rotfl:
    Fantastic :j Lets *so* talk about the efforts to get off the grass :rotfl:
    Bubblesmum wrote: »
    OOOh that sounds rather yum, I tried rhubarb gin at the weekend which was also yummy.....
    Ooh! I had my rellie' sloe gin in Norfolk last week, even that was pretty amazing.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,788 Ambassador
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    Good to see you KC :)
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Talking of prosecco, I'm rather partial to a Mojito Royale - which is white rum topped up with Prosecco rather than soda - very nice (hic) :)
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Butti
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    Talking of prosecco, I'm rather partial to a Mojito Royale - which is white rum topped up with Prosecco rather than soda - very nice (hic) :)

    That sounds nice. We're camping next week - may take that!
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,788 Ambassador
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    May put Edinburgh Gin on my birthday list :rotfl:
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,435 Forumite
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    I always associate Scotland with whisky. I'll have to look out for Edinburgh gin :)
    I hope your week is going well.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,788 Ambassador
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    I am not having the best of weeks it has to be said.

    There have been ongoing issues with my current lodger.
    I am very stressed and I am currently seriously thinking of asking her to leave.
    She is young and it is her first time away from home.
    I am trying so hard to take all this into account but it is so hard.
    She does just not get that it is my house & I can say how things have to be.
    Every time I try to offer advice on things she takes it so personally.
    I am struggling.

    Thoughts please?
    Thanks.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Thoughts please?
    Thanks.

    If you're having to ask, then she needs to go.

    Lodging is a commercial transaction. She's not a relative - she's not your daughter.
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