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Another little "woohoo" moment

I have paid of an old "friend" today, in the form of a Barclays Credit Card. When I got the darn thing almost a decade ago, it was supposed to be for 'emergencies' only. How much has changed in that time. Back then, emergencies counted as surprise MOT repairs, dinner because we messed up the shopping and any number of other small daily disasters that just got stuck on there and forgotten about.

No more. My old friend is dead and buried, never to be used again since I ritually dismembered him and threw him in the bin. Two more of his friends are waiting in the wings to take centre stage in the firing line from tomorrow but today, I am a step closer to freedom.

YNAB (https://www.youneedabudget.com) is my biggest ally along with Mr Whiteboard for planning meals and Mr FiloFax for general planning activities. Thanks to my new found friends, I have (as of this year) paid of £4876 in total bringing my debt down to sub £9000.

MOTs are now an expected expense. There is no longer too much month left at the end of the food since I have a freezer and pantry stocked enough to make a Prepper envious. Dinners out are also planned and there are no more 'oops I spent it' moments and buyers remorse. I know to the penny how much was spent on each bill, activity and morsel of food. I sleep at night and I dont have to worry about anything. Letters on the doormat are no longer objects of fear and suspicion, but welcome reminders of how far I have come (in the form of bank begging letters appealing to me to take out more credit).

Chin up people. There is a way forward.
Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
Meet my best friend : YNAB (you need a budget)
My other best friend is a filofax.
Do or do not, there is no try....Yoda.

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  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    :TWell done you:T
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  • moohound
    moohound Posts: 1,209 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Nice going FireWyrm :)
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  • BJV
    BJV Posts: 2,535 Forumite
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    Well done. Its a big achievement and I know it feels amazing. I said goodbye to Mr Halifax and Mr Santander in September after nearly 15 years of friendship/slavery and it felt liberating. You should be proud of yourself.


    Hope you did the ritualistic disembowelment, card and chip before puting in the bin?
    Happiness, Health and Wealth in that order please!:A
  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    BJV wrote: »

    Hope you did the ritualistic disembowelment, card and chip before puting in the bin?

    I cut him into teeny tiny little pieces...aint no-one gonna put Humpty back together again.
    Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
    Meet my best friend : YNAB (you need a budget)
    My other best friend is a filofax.
    Do or do not, there is no try....Yoda.

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  • FireWyrm - I'm a big fan of your sensible, practical and head on approach to life :)


    As an aside, have you ever read Cold Comfort Farm? You might enjoy it - gotta love a practical heroine in a story :D
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  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    FireWyrm - I'm a big fan of your sensible, practical and head on approach to life :)

    Thank you. Although, it wasnt always the case.
    As an aside, have you ever read Cold Comfort Farm? You might enjoy it - gotta love a practical heroine in a story :D

    Hmm interesting. I'll have to go look it up. I usually read Zombie Apocalypse novels, but hey...perhaps a change of pace might be in order.
    Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
    Meet my best friend : YNAB (you need a budget)
    My other best friend is a filofax.
    Do or do not, there is no try....Yoda.

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  • Karen777
    Karen777 Posts: 416 Forumite
    well done - must have been very satisfying. another one bites the dust :)
    Debt at highest - June 2013 - 26k/ March 2018 - 2500
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
  • Well done!! you are where I want to be... !! congratulations :T
  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    All this talk of ritual dismemberment is very topical, today of all days...

    Good work, FW

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  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    All this talk of ritual dismemberment is very topical, today of all days...

    Good work, FW

    Dennis
    @natdebtline


    Ah yes...'bonfire of the [STRIKE]vanities[/STRIKE] credit cards' (with abject apologies to 15th century Italy) or a more modern burning of the bra.
    Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
    Meet my best friend : YNAB (you need a budget)
    My other best friend is a filofax.
    Do or do not, there is no try....Yoda.

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