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Can you be a second class friend? Poll Discussion

Poll started 24th July 2007. Can you be a second class friend? Are you snobby about what stamp you get? Is second class more literal than economic? If someone posted you a birthday card with a second class stamp on it, Which of the following would be your view?

A. They’re cheap. The symbolism of first class is important.
B. They’re savvy. Glad to see they value what matters.
C. Only fine if it arrives in time. If not, it shows they value money over mates.

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  • V_Chic_Chick
    V_Chic_Chick Posts: 2,441 Forumite
    Sending a belated birthday card by second class post is not acceptable IMHO. So long as the card gets there on or before the birthday then that's fine by me.
  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    I don;t think I'd even notice, unless it were very late. If on time, who cares?
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  • Oasis1
    Oasis1 Posts: 730 Forumite
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    Wouldn't care as long as it arrived on time :D
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    don't think I'd notice either!
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  • pandas66
    pandas66 Posts: 18,811 Forumite
    Not something I ever look at, on personal mail.

    However I do take note on business mail!
    Panda xx

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  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,680 Forumite
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    Just as well panda :rotfl::rotfl:
  • pandas66
    pandas66 Posts: 18,811 Forumite
    Just as well panda :rotfl::rotfl:
    what class is carrier pigeon





    and can I say what a nice pie it made

    *talented cook ;) *
    Panda xx

    :Tg :jo:Dn ;)e:Dn;)o:jw :T :eek:

    missing kipper No 2.....:cool:
  • RenStar
    RenStar Posts: 217 Forumite
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    I think I'd just be extremely chuffed someone other than my other half, my mum or my best mate cared enough to pick out a card for me and send it to me and wouldn't give a hoot if a snail delivered it!

    As I've got older, I've been surprised by just how little birthday and Christmas cards I recieve each year from my so-called friends. Now either I'm a billie-no-mates or I've just got some very tigh fisted friends :D

    I sent our evening wedding invites by second class post last year and the day ones first class :D Some friends apparently got the hump over that........
  • V_Chic_Chick
    V_Chic_Chick Posts: 2,441 Forumite
    RenStar wrote: »
    As I've got older, I've been surprised by just how little birthday and Christmas cards I recieve each year from my so-called friends. Now either I'm a billie-no-mates or I've just got some very tigh fisted friends :D

    I usually tell my mates that they can either have £2 spent on a card and a small present, or no card and a present worth £2 more . . . guess which they opt for :rolleyes:
  • irishwench69
    irishwench69 Posts: 807 Forumite
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    I usually tell my mates that they can either have £2 spent on a card and a small present, or no card and a present worth £2 more . . . guess which they opt for :rolleyes:

    To be fair, I'd probably be in the same camp as most of your friends...... :o

    While it *is* the thought that counts, I just end up recycling cards anyway, so a letter in with a pressie, or in fact a call / text then a pressie when I next see them..........

    Meh, cards just seem a bit of a waste these days - wait till you get started with the whole xmas cards discussion........ :eek:

    IW x
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    IF YOU'RE SKINT......
    Do I need it? Can I afford it? Can I find it cheaper anywhere else?

    IF YOU'RE NOT SKINT......
    Will I use it? Is it worth it? Can I find it cheaper anywhere else?
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