I want a boyfriend! Dating debtfree style?

alibambino

Sorry Skint-spice i thought you where talking about ZTD, dont give up theres plenty of time yet, get yourself on pof

skint_spice

Sammz wrote: »

I've pretty much given up on the dating sites for all the reasons mentioned above. Can't even find someone nice to have a decent chat with, never mind date. Haven't been out since before Christmas and no chance of meeting anyone at work. Good job I enjoy the single life!

what are you complaining about? all the boys are in your yard already! very DFW! That song always makes me laugh.

ZTD

skint_spice wrote: »

damn, is that the bloke version of subtle?

Your dealing with a bloke. Subtlety is wasted. If you were trying to seduce a girl, then (alas), you'd need subtlety...

You girls have is so easy...

skint_spice wrote: »

anyway time to move on! not doing much - very much like Sammz, becoming a hermit and not meeting anyone. I have a couple of nights out lined up though so might meet someone then...yeah right...

Have faith woman. Remember, plenty eye contact. Copious amounts of eye-contact. In fact, next time you meet friend, keep looking at him. Sublety is not good when dealing with men.

skint_spice wrote: »

spill, how about you? met anyone? even virtually?

Not met anyone. Not talking to anyone "date-able" either.

yeovilmac

ZTD wrote: »

So what's it like from the male perspective?

I'm not quite sure really. I'm not overly keen on internet dating sites although I have tried one or two. Nowadays, I'm more likely to rely on the free-to-use sites rather than throw good money away ( or so it seems ). I think that with POF you could get pretty much whatever you wanted IF the folk on there actually mean what they say. I put in my "requirements" and it came back with 615 people within ten miles of me.

Another free one is Midsummers Eve. I'm on that one too and met someone a while ago but nothing happened.

Ali - you didn't offend me, I promise.

yeovilmac

Sammz wrote: »

I've pretty much given up on the dating sites for all the reasons mentioned above. Can't even find someone nice to have a decent chat with, never mind date. Haven't been out since before Christmas and no chance of meeting anyone at work. Good job I enjoy the single life!

Hi Sammz,

Do you mind me asking whereabouts in the UK you are? Don't be too specific and obviously don't say if you don't want to.

Martin

alibambino

Have faith woman. Remember, plenty eye contact. Copious amounts of eye-contact. In fact, next time you meet friend, keep looking at him. Sublety is not good when dealing with men.

Skint spice if that doesnt work just get them drunk lol

skint_spice

ZTD wrote: »

Not met anyone. Not talking to anyone "date-able" either.

and your plan of action is??? POF?

have given up on the friend so will probably be much less subtle if I meet anyone new - don't have light years of friendship to screw up!

ZTD

alibambino wrote: »

Skint spice if that doesnt work just get them drunk lol

To quote Shakey: "it bringeth the desire, but taketh away the performance."

ZTD

skint_spice wrote: »

and your plan of action is??? POF?

Errm, probably. But not right now. Still got a cold to shake off at the mo.

skint_spice wrote: »

have given up on the friend so will probably be much less subtle if I meet anyone new - don't have light years of friendship to screw up!

So batten down the trousers at the Glasgow meet...

skint_spice

alibambino wrote: »

Skint spice if that doesnt work just get them drunk lol

ah then it all unravels...I don't say anything early doors as I need a couple of drinks to steady the nerves and then suddenly next thing it's at a point where I realise I'm too drunk to make an impassioned plea and he'll just think it's the drink and then next I'm home alone again - whoops!