I want a boyfriend! Dating debtfree style?

skint_spice

ZTD wrote: »

I thought there was a certain blokey you had your eye on...

I've given up, it's not going anywhere, maybe I'm being too subtle but I think I have to just accept the fact he's not interested and move on.

yeovilmac

alibambino wrote: »

ZTD no not that ive seen anyway, and im not hot stuff i just think that SOME men on there obviously want a quick fumble lol.
YEOVILMIC i knew that wud happen,sincere apologies, maybe weird was the wrong word......... forward then and yes....... they arent all like that !

Hi Ali,

Don't worry, I wasn't offended...;) and by the way, its Martin, not Yeovilmic or Yeovilmac or anything else...:rotfl:

I haven't met anyone from pof just yet but get a few messages, just not from the right person.

ZTD

alibambino wrote: »

Do i need to leave the room then ZTD?

Why, have you found someone already? Sheesh, that's quick...

skint_spice

alibambino wrote: »

Do i need to leave the room then ZTD?

it's ok, I told him about a friend I have a massive crush on ages ago - and I've still not done anything about it.

no, need to bail out!

ZTD

skint_spice wrote: »

I've given up, it's not going anywhere, maybe I'm being too subtle

Oi! You! Bedroom! Now! And pick your jaw up off the floor...

skint_spice wrote: »

but I think I have to just accept the fact he's not interested and move on.

Oh well, that's a bit of a shame - at least you tried. You doing the dating sites too?

Sammz

I've pretty much given up on the dating sites for all the reasons mentioned above. Can't even find someone nice to have a decent chat with, never mind date. Haven't been out since before Christmas and no chance of meeting anyone at work. Good job I enjoy the single life!

ZTD

yeovilmac wrote: »

I haven't met anyone from pof just yet but get a few messages, just not from the right person.

So what's it like from the male perspective?

alibambino

yeovilmac wrote: »

Hi Ali,

Don't worry, I wasn't offended...;) and by the way, its Martin, not Yeovilmic or Yeovilmac or anything else...:rotfl:

I haven't met anyone from pof just yet but get a few messages, just not from the right person.

Ive offendedyou again lol sorry about the name mix up( had a senior moment). I know what you mean about not fiding the right person, but as my friends says "next " lol

skint_spice

ZTD wrote: »

Oi! You! Bedroom! Now! And pick your jaw up off the floor...

damn, is that the bloke version of subtle? maybe I need to rethink my strategy!;) maybe part of the problem is that if we weren't good friends I probably would be more direct and so maybe he thinks I would be if I were interested... arghhhh!

anyway time to move on! not doing much - very much like Sammz, becoming a hermit and not meeting anyone. I have a couple of nights out lined up though so might meet someone then...yeah right...

spill, how about you? met anyone? even virtually?

ZTD

Sammz wrote: »

I've pretty much given up on the dating sites for all the reasons mentioned above. Can't even find someone nice to have a decent chat with, never mind date. Haven't been out since before Christmas and no chance of meeting anyone at work. Good job I enjoy the single life!

If you want someone just to chat with, try these boards on MSE.

God knows I'll talk to anybody, and I'm sure I'm not alone.