I want a boyfriend! Dating debtfree style?

newmum1

I have been with OH for 8 years now, we met on a date set up by a mutual friend, we lived in different cities when we first met, we both then went off to uni again in different cities once uni was over we settled in in my home city and we now have a 3 year old daughter, i am in fact still waiting for a marriage proposal as he did say on our very first date that he doesn't believe in marriage but just after midnight on 1st jan he said you never know we may end this year husband and wife, so who knows eh

Spendaholic_Chick

ZTD wrote: »

It's trying to protect you from weirdos...

But that cuts my options down to virtually nothing!

ZTD

Spendaholic_Chick wrote: »

But that cuts my options down to virtually nothing!

I only said "trying".

You can see my posts, so it's not doing too well...

wherediditallgo

I've just spent the best part of an hour going through all 535 posts in this thread. :shocked: :T I've decided I need a new relationship this year, so I'm going to be signing up with some of the sites mentioned.


For those who can't face wading through the whole thread, the sites mentioned are:

datingdirect.com
www.freedating.com
match.com
Yahoo Personals
girlsdateforfree.com
loveinuniform.com
Love@Lycos
http://www.midsummerseve.com/
http://www.plentyoffish.com

Off now to work on how to describe myself.

Spendaholic_Chick

Well to be honest, weirdos are looking more and more tempting the longer I'm single.......

skint_spice

The thing I thought was interesting in the plenty of fish site was that men my age are willing to meet women of my age! on DD there's a lot of 38- 45yr old men looking for 35 yr old women at the oldest!

ZTD

Spendaholic_Chick wrote: »

Well to be honest, weirdos are looking more and more tempting the longer I'm single.......

Hello baby...


:rotfl:

lauradora

Couldn't we just start a post off in here?? sort of a lonlely hearts for DFW's????

ZTD

Join in the weekend [STRIKE]flirt[/STRIKE] party threads. If you like someone - PM them. Even if you're not looking for anything. Loads of interesting people on this board.

PasturesNew

Thanks for the list. Over the last 5 years I have dabbled with:

wherediditallgo wrote: »

datingdirect.com - no
www.freedating.com - no
match.com - no
Yahoo Personals - no
girlsdateforfree.com - no
loveinuniform.com - no
Love@Lycos - yes, bunch of old perves where I was living
http://www.midsummerseve.com/ - yes, just weirdos being dirty in 1st message
http://www.plentyoffish.com - yes, just oddballs

Also tried:
http://www.okcupid.com - mainly nigerian men! So no thanks
http://www.mysinglefriend.com - my friend never completed the profile for me
http://www.faceparty.com - really just blokes wanting to show their bits
http://www.flirtbox.co.uk - met 2 lovely guys on there. One I went for a few beers with and a few walks (mates only), 2nd one I, er ... well, you know. Met up about 4-6 times in the last 2 years.

A friend of mine has written LOADS of what she calls "very successful" profiles for her friends on another site. She wrote one for me and took the responses. She said she was SO appalled by them and SO disgusted by them that she wouldn't give me the login - and told me to move out of the area immediately as there really WEREN'T any suitable men near me. She said all those that responded were 60+ and most immediately sent kn0b pics unsolicited.