I want a boyfriend! Dating debtfree style?

mikegould

Spendaholic_Chick wrote: »

I'm on plenty of fish too

They have forums that seem fun, which I think would be a nicer way to get to know people than only by their profils and emailing; but sadly I can ony read, not post. :mad:

Totally free though, so very MSE :money:

I've been to three of there group meets aswell, there really good, everyone's in the same boat, nobody looking down at you etc.

Spendaholic_Chick

I'd gotto a meet up if I coud get on the forums lol. Have you had any luck meeting a special someone, Mike?

ZTD

misssaver12 wrote: »

so what was the best site / way to meet the ideal partner in 2008?

Well first you buy me a drink...and then we start flirting...



As other people have said, plenty of fish is a very DFW way of dating, and is very popular round these parts...

debrag

mumszyof2 lucky you my oh likes his own space and spending lots of time alone. Dispite living with his dad, sister (there are 9 children all together) her partner & her son he say's at present he "never" wants to live with anyone (can't afford to live on own so moved back in with his dad) he does say he could change his mind as time goes on.

ZTD

debrag wrote: »

mumszyof2 lucky you my oh likes his own space and spending lots of time alone. Dispite living with his dad, sister (there are 9 children all together) her partner & her son he say's at present he "never" wants to live with anyone (can't afford to live on own so moved back in with his dad) he does say he could change his mind as time goes on.

:grouphug:

Unfortunately I find that when "words" are directly contradicted by "actions", "actions" win the argument like a steamroller wins an argument with a snail.

ZTD

Spendaholic_Chick wrote: »

I'm on plenty of fish too

They have forums that seem fun, which I think would be a nicer way to get to know people than only by their profils and emailing; but sadly I can ony read, not post. :mad:

Why can't you post?

Spendaholic_Chick

ZTD, I had to read that about 3 times to get the meaning of that :rolleyes:

Spendaholic_Chick

ZTD wrote: »

Why can't you post?

I dunno, it just keeps going back to the log in page. When I checked the help pages it says to enable cookies, but they are already enabled

mikegould

Spendaholic_Chick wrote: »

I'd gotto a meet up if I coud get on the forums lol. Have you had any luck meeting a special someone, Mike?

You really don't want to know......

ok ok, I'll let you know, I'm one of them people who put 100% into everything..


So, a couple of months ago, every area of my life was sorted, I just wanted that special someone to share it with, holidays, walks in the park etc.

Someone then interduced me to a dating expert called David Deangelo, he's got a DVD package called Double your Dating.

So, being the kinda guy who will give anything a go. I thought I'd watch the package, its only 6 x 2 hour seminars, well worth the effort if I find miss right.

Well, this has taken over my life, I am no long interested in getting a girlfriend, I'm focusing all my attentions on this research.

I've watched in the area of 100 hours of DVD, hours and hours or audio tapes etc. Books.

hopefully when all is finished, I should be able to find miss right, without doing stupid things and saying silly things that have messed me up in the past.
I've no interest in sleeping with a 100 women, just finding the one I want with the confidence that its a area I'm sure about.

Spendaholic_Chick

Blimey - 100 hrs of dvds etc :eek:

Does the original programme recommend all these, or how does it work? Will it make you the perfect bf at the end of it?