I want a boyfriend! Dating debtfree style?

yeovilmac

jw1096 wrote: »

Not quite. Without going into too much detail - im with someone and its not going well (for a while now) but I dont really know what to do. Well, I do know what to do, but its difficult because there is no real 'reason' to break up - we dont fight, we dont argue etc etc, I just feel like we have grown apart a bit, more like brother and sister and I dont think he has the same aims as me anymore. Its hard really. I dont know if he has even noticed to be honest.

It just struck me the other day (when I was in tears because there was a family problem) that he is kind of unsupportive, and I felt really alone . Im sure he meant well, its just that he didnt help at all, and when I asked for a favour to help me out he flatly refused. And this is all coming from the guy who has had an easy life for the last 3 years becuase ive taken care of everything. I think I might need to be alone soon, and just have some fun.

Sorry to spoil the party folks! I didnt mean to be so down!

Jo x

Hey, don't apologise for being honest and open, brave thing to do on here with people you hardly know.:T

I've just ended a relationship for the first time in my life because it was going wrong and although the good times were good, the bad times were far worse in comparison.

I'd do what you know you have to do then go and have some fun...:beer: :j and without even looking, something may spring up. You never know when something good is just round the corner.

Best wishes

Martin ( male,39, tall, dark, nice eyes and lives near you.:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: )

MushyPeas

Aw, JW, that sounds tough. I've been there and it's really hard when you're in a relationship when it's not awful...but you kind of feel alone so know something isn't right.

Been following this thread with interest. Wish there was some kind of secret wink or handshake so you know when someone is single....every man I meet seems to be in a relationship!!!

Anyone tried online dating? Scares the pants out of me to be honest.... but then maybe that's the point! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

yeovilmac

I'm free but you're the third person I've told on here and I'm still alone!! :rotfl:

heavenfire

yeovilmac wrote: »

I'm free but you're the third person I've told on here and I'm still alone!! :rotfl:

Which one was I?? :rotfl:

yeovilmac

You were the first one!! :heart2:

But the other two are nearer...:kisses:

:rolleyes:

mikegould

MushyPeas wrote: »

Aw, JW, that sounds tough. I've been there and it's really hard when you're in a relationship when it's not awful...but you kind of feel alone so know something isn't right.

Been following this thread with interest. Wish there was some kind of secret wink or handshake so you know when someone is single....every man I meet seems to be in a relationship!!!

Anyone tried online dating? Scares the pants out of me to be honest.... but then maybe that's the point! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Hello, there's a fair few of us on here who are single, i'm sure I herd on the radio the other day that 1 in 3 30 somthings are single.

I seem to make great friends with ladys, but i've not got the charm or the moves to get any further with them..


I've just done a dating site myself, i've joined plenty of fish, and its free, very MSE

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member5254937.htm <--- my profile

MushyPeas

yeovilmac wrote: »

I'm free but you're the third person I've told on here and I'm still alone!! :rotfl:

Awww, surely you're not alone with all the lovely people here on MSE to keep you company :kisses:

heavenfire

yeovilmac wrote: »

You were the first one!! :heart2:

But the other two are nearer...:kisses:

:rolleyes:

How are you? You didn't stay long last night?

ZTD

mikegould wrote: »

I'm sure you've got a lovely voice,

I'm used to singing in front of large crowds. I'm an alternative to water-cannon for riot control.

ZTD

MushyPeas wrote: »

Been following this thread with interest. Wish there was some kind of secret wink or handshake so you know when someone is single....every man I meet seems to be in a relationship!!!

Like a Mason's handshake? Isn't that what the "goose" is..?

MushyPeas wrote: »

Anyone tried online dating? Scares the pants out of me to be honest.... but then maybe that's the point! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Oh dear...it's meant to charm/excite the pants off you...