I want a boyfriend! Dating debtfree style?

ZTD

mikegould wrote: »

people always think they can, we've all see X factor :rotfl:

I don't think I can sing. Or at least I know I can sing - I just club the notes rather than hit them...

ZTD

heavenfire wrote: »

Actually I sing. Don't laugh! I know I'm no Etta
9 yrs to go then great :eek:

Know what my gimmick is though :j

Depends on what you sing: Ballads work better than Death Metal...

heavenfire

mikegould wrote: »

people always think they can, we've all see X factor :rotfl:

your lucky !!!!!! though, having 9 years left, i'm stuck with these short 8 years

I was at an audition this year but only to support a friend. Now he can sing! Thought might as well as I'll never get experience it again.

They really do pick the freaks and geeks feel sorry for them. No he didn't through he panicked.

I used to think 30 was so old!!!! :rotfl:

mikegould

ZTD wrote: »

I don't think I can sing. Or at least I know I can sing - I just club the notes rather than hit them...

I'm sure you've got a lovely voice, I could never do it though, I've always been into rap music, and being white, i cant rap for sh*t

i'm a wizz at the robot dance though :dance:

BWZN93

heavenfire wrote: »

Hi JW you in the same boat as me then?!

Not quite. Without going into too much detail - im with someone and its not going well (for a while now) but I dont really know what to do. Well, I do know what to do, but its difficult because there is no real 'reason' to break up - we dont fight, we dont argue etc etc, I just feel like we have grown apart a bit, more like brother and sister and I dont think he has the same aims as me anymore. Its hard really. I dont know if he has even noticed to be honest.

It just struck me the other day (when I was in tears because there was a family problem) that he is kind of unsupportive, and I felt really alone . Im sure he meant well, its just that he didnt help at all, and when I asked for a favour to help me out he flatly refused. And this is all coming from the guy who has had an easy life for the last 3 years becuase ive taken care of everything. I think I might need to be alone soon, and just have some fun.

Sorry to spoil the party folks! I didnt mean to be so down!

Jo x

heavenfire

ZTD wrote: »

Depends on what you sing: Ballads work better than Death Metal...

Won't tell as you'll laugh! Will say I don't do either

BWZN93

ZTD wrote: »

Well look around - size up the competition. In some places, looking intellectual is merely a matter of *not* wearing earrings the size of a hula-hoop...

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

mikegould

jw1096 wrote: »

Not quite. Without going into too much detail - im with someone and its not going well (for a while now) but I dont really know what to do. Well, I do know what to do, but its difficult because there is no real 'reason' to break up - we dont fight, we dont argue etc etc, I just feel like we have grown apart a bit, more like brother and sister and I dont think he has the same aims as me anymore. Its hard really. I dont know if he has even noticed to be honest.

It just struck me the other day (when I was in tears because there was a family problem) that he is kind of unsupportive, and I felt really alone . Im sure he meant well, its just that he didnt help at all, and when I asked for a favour to help me out he flatly refused. And this is all coming from the guy who has had an easy life for the last 3 years becuase ive taken care of everything. I think I might need to be alone soon, and just have some fun.

Sorry to spoil the party folks! I didnt mean to be so down!

Jo x

Arr, dont worry about it, storys are always welcome, its a shame when relationships go that way, but, there's much worse relationships out there.
Dont take a rush disision on just a feeling, you could loose far more in the long run...

I'm sure everyone here will give you a cuddle though :grouphug:

heavenfire

jw1096 wrote: »

Not quite. Without going into too much detail - im with someone and its not going well (for a while now) but I dont really know what to do. Well, I do know what to do, but its difficult because there is no real 'reason' to break up - we dont fight, we dont argue etc etc, I just feel like we have grown apart a bit, more like brother and sister and I dont think he has the same aims as me anymore. Its hard really. I dont know if he has even noticed to be honest.

It just struck me the other day (when I was in tears because there was a family problem) that he is kind of unsupportive, and I felt really alone . Im sure he meant well, its just that he didnt help at all, and when I asked for a favour to help me out he flatly refused. And this is all coming from the guy who has had an easy life for the last 3 years becuase ive taken care of everything. I think I might need to be alone soon, and just have some fun.

Sorry to spoil the party folks! I didnt mean to be so down!

Jo x

Hey you're not spoiling the party! It happens. Do what you think is best for you! Life is short you should be with someone who appreciates you.

Sammz

Tom - if you see someone you like on a pay site be sure to check the free sites first to see if they are registered. Often people register on a few sites. Also, I think it's free to wink so you may reply but not hear back from them!