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d0nkeyk0ng
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I just found out my fiancee and her brother have got a mortgage for their family home. I knew they were looking to buy a place but figured it would be in his name.
It was probably for convenience to obtain the mortgage. Is my fiancee now locked into it? Could she remove her name from the mortgage later on? Will it affect us financially once we're married?
I was hoping to buy a small place of our own but it looks like it would have to be in my name only and hence limit what I can afford. If five or ten years down the line, we decide to buy a larger property to move into, how would the above situation affect this?
I suspect this will cause further problems down the line and they've clearly not thought it through (or they have and they just give a damn about me in which case I need to reconsider the whole relationship).
Any advice please?
It was probably for convenience to obtain the mortgage. Is my fiancee now locked into it? Could she remove her name from the mortgage later on? Will it affect us financially once we're married?
I was hoping to buy a small place of our own but it looks like it would have to be in my name only and hence limit what I can afford. If five or ten years down the line, we decide to buy a larger property to move into, how would the above situation affect this?
I suspect this will cause further problems down the line and they've clearly not thought it through (or they have and they just give a damn about me in which case I need to reconsider the whole relationship).
Any advice please?
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The existing mortgage will be deducted from what is affordable as far as her income is concerned. Best hope is the new lender treats it as a credit commitment, as if she had a loan for that monthly payment.
If she wishes to be removed from the mortgage and ownership of the other property, the lender will establish if the remaining party can afford to take it on alone.I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0 -
The brother will be paying for it entirely. They have other properties from which they collect rent so the money will be coming from there. So the fiancee wouldn't be paying anything towards it but I guess she might be financially responsible if there's a problem (which is where I'm concerned about her name being on it).
If I ever wanted to apply for a joint mortgage with my (hopefully by then, wife), would the lender know about the previous mortgage? Would it affect what happened?
I'm just concerned that there would be a situation where we could never have a joint mortgage so long as she was on her brother's mortgage (in name only).0 -
It doesn't matter who is paying it. She has a joint and several liability so will be treated as her 100% commitment.
Yes. The mortgage would be disclosed and visible on the new lender's credit search. Yes, it will reduce he borrowing power and yours, jointly as I said.
No, this will not stop you having a joint mortgage. It will impact only the amount you can borrow and how that happens will depend on the lender you use. Best case scenario, as I said, is the monthly payment will be deducted from affordability like any other credit commitment, even if she is paying nothing.I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0 -
Considering you are engaged did you not discuss this beforehand. You assumed the mortgage would be in you fiancees brothers name ???? did you not know. IMO it doesn't bode well for a long term relationship . This will have an impact on your life together especially if your brother in law can't pay for some reason and it falls in your fiancees lapIf i knew the answers to all the questions i wouldn't be on here0
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See here: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4998574
Basically I knew nothing until last night.0 -
If they both own the property and he is raising a mortgage then her name would have to be on the mortgage.
I find the easiest way to explain this is lets assume the mortgage is £100k. Her income is £50k and she can borrow £200k in total. As she already has a mortgage of £100k, that would mean that she can now only use her income for an additional £100k to purchase a property.
So if your income is also £50k, that means you can both jointly borrow £300k (your £200k plus her £100k).
I think that is a little simplistic, but it gives you an idea of how it could affect getting a mortgage in future.I am a Mortgage AdviserYou should note that this site doesn't check my status as a mortgage adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.0 -
Have read your other thread and I would be furious if my fianc! has done this behind my back. Relationships are all about trust and i would not trust them after this. Its your life and up to you how you deal with this but if it were me I would seriously rethink if marriage is the way forwardIf i knew the answers to all the questions i wouldn't be on here0
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d0nkeyk0ng wrote: »They have other properties from which they collect rent so the money will be coming from there.
Correspondingly will have additional contingent liabilities in the form of other mortgages. Which muddies the waters even further.0
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