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Partner given up work now cant claim a penny

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My partner and I both had full time jobs working nights, him as a carer in a nursing home and me as a security officer. My son was born last year in July so in January this year when I returned to work after Maternity leave my partner gave up work to look after him. It made sense at the time because I earned more than him.

We was told my partner would not be able to claim anything because we earned too much jointly in 2012 - 2013 so we waited until April this year to put in a fresh claim for Child Credit or Working tax credits.
But again it seems we earned too much last year.
My partner earned £10712 and I earned £20693
This year I will earn about £24000 but my partner cant claim a single penny.

Now I know there are many many people out there who earn a lot less and I dont mean to seem ungrateful but we have both worked all our lives and now we need a little help there is none and we are really going to struggle to pay the mortgage each month.

Obviously he cant claim Jobseekers allowance because he is a stay at home Dad. He cant even get free Dental treatment because he isn't earning any benefits.

Please if anyone can give me any idea if there is anything at all out there that might help us I would be truely grateful, as I find all these different benefits very confusing.

I did try the benefits calculator already and I contacted Citizens Advice and Turn2Us. All of them said we are not entitled to anything :(
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  • Caz3121
    Caz3121 Posts: 15,832 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Are you claiming child benefit?
    This should be in your partners name as this will give NI contributions towards state pension.

    Cutoff for working tax credits is around £18k so your income alone it too high for that
    Child tax credits cutoff for one child is around £26k but because of the disregards they will base your claim on £26,500 so you will not qualify
  • haras_nosirrah
    haras_nosirrah Posts: 2,208 Forumite
    Are there any evening jobs your partner could do?
    I am a Mortgage Adviser
    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • fabforty
    fabforty Posts: 809 Forumite
    Are there any evening jobs your partner could do?



    Or part-time days? Finding care work should be relatively simple, compared with other areas of work. OH and I did the same. I went back to work full-time because I earned more than him - he then found a part-time job in a hospital.
  • MissMoneypenny
    MissMoneypenny Posts: 5,324 Forumite
    edited 24 May 2014 at 5:51PM
    Having a child is tightening the belt time and you can get advice for that on these following boards:-
    Post a Statement of Affairs on the Debt-free wannabe board and they will advise where you can cut your outgoings.
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/forumdisplay.php?f=76

    The Old Style money saving board will be able to help with cutting your food bill and you will all still be able to eat a healthy diet.
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/forumdisplay.php?f=33

    Usually I would post the up your income board too, but as already said, your OH is in the right career to easily fit some work around your hours.
    RENTING? Have you checked to see that your landlord has permission from their mortgage lender to rent the property? If not, you could be thrown out with very little notice.
    Read the sticky on the House Buying, Renting & Selling board.


  • shop-to-drop
    shop-to-drop Posts: 4,340 Forumite
    Isn't there a new way of transferring a little of his tax free allowance to you. Not much but better than the nothing most of us received when becoming a stay home parent.
    :j Trytryagain FLYLADY - SAYE £700 each month Premium Bonds £713 Mortgage Was £100,000@20/6/08 now zilch 21/4/15:beer: WTL - 52 (I'll do it 4 MUM)
  • As his career is care work he could join an agency and fit shifts around your working hours and your child.

    It would not be regular or guaranteed income, but it would certainly help you both out.

    Alternatively he could use this time to increase his qualifications so that when he is in a position to go back to work he will be in a position to get a better paid job - maybe nursing? Social work? - these are the types of careers that may appeal to someone who enjoys care work and there's a huge bonus that he would be applying with care experience.

    If/when he decides to take this route, he would need to identify the loans, grants, and bursaries available.
  • dktreesea
    dktreesea Posts: 5,736 Forumite
    Your income has fallen by more than £2,500 for the current year. So the HMRC should rework your tax credits for the current year, based on your lower income for the current year but ignoring the first £2,500 of the reduction.

    http://www.hmrc.gov.uk/leaflets/wtc8.pdf

    And, as stated by other posters, it would be a good idea for your partner, not yourself, to claim the child benefit. That way it will count towards his NI years for pension purposes.
  • FluffyDuck3
    FluffyDuck3 Posts: 67 Forumite
    Domino9 wrote: »
    As his career is care work he could join an agency and fit shifts around your working hours and your child.

    It would not be regular or guaranteed income, but it would certainly help you both out.

    Alternatively he could use this time to increase his qualifications so that when he is in a position to go back to work he will be in a position to get a better paid job - maybe nursing? Social work? - these are the types of careers that may appeal to someone who enjoys care work and there's a huge bonus that he would be applying with care experience.

    If/when he decides to take this route, he would need to identify the loans, grants, and bursaries available.

    I think this is a good idea.

    Next year, when you are assessed on £24,000 you won't receive that much top up. You'll still be worse off than when you were both working and there's an extra mouth to feed. Though new babies don't cost that much, children cost more as they grow. Shoes and clothes become more expensive with size.

    I'd go through one of the calculators again, and enter figures as though you earned £24k last year, and £24k this year, that should give an idea of what tax credits you'll get next year. I don't think it will be more than £20 a week.
  • sax11
    sax11 Posts: 3,250 Forumite
    Home Insurance Hacker!
    £24K and struggle to pay a mortgage

    You over stretched.
  • sarahmtly
    sarahmtly Posts: 40 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    I really appreciate all the advise, especially about putting the child benefit in his name as we were wondering what would happen as regards to his N.I contributions.
    It does seem then that we are not entitled to anything, I work 60 hours a week so when I have a day off it is nice to have family time which appears to be a luxury these days. He has been looking into Open University courses so maybe he can gain some quals for when he does go back like some of you suggested.
    He hasn't worked for an agency before so maybe he can look into that.
    Again I really appreciate all the advise. Thanks
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