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Having my LBM but possibly smashing the bulb as i hit my head off the wall

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  • mismatch
    mismatch Posts: 90 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Well first day back was hideous second is soso but we must plod on. Checked out the freezer yesterday and I will only need 2 meals bought to survive till payday so that's good. Just need to stick to the meal plan of chicken 1 day mince the next, rinse and repeat!!! Small unplanned spend tmw going halves on a strimmer for our allotment with my dad as although it's our allotment he helps out and enjoys it so it's much needed and he's offered the half. I'll let him have extra chicken eggs for a while to appease my slight guilt that he's going halves .
    No great excitement and sadly no extra payments but to addition to the debt either so technically positive week so far. Still itching at getting ynab early and playing but resisting so far. Mainly cos the hubby will think I'm a loon faffing on with it so will need to so it while he's out them can go dah-dah look at this marvelous thing I did, not have him carping overt shoulder while I crunch numbers for hours lol
    Well must pootle back to the grind, lunch is over :(
    Living half in debt, half in denial
    At the bottom of the hole....pass the rope and hoist me up!!
  • mismatch
    mismatch Posts: 90 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Well an eventful week st work mostly dealing with a disciplinary case. This always makes me super grateful that although I'm skint I have a secure job. Been ok on the money front but thur is payday which will start true true economy drive with ynab being trialed starting tues so I can see it over 2pays.
    Living half in debt, half in denial
    At the bottom of the hole....pass the rope and hoist me up!!
  • mismatch
    mismatch Posts: 90 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    12hr day on my own at work today so nsd. Yay. Heard amazing words from the hubby while pricing up garden netting "can u check ur cash back site?!" Is he finally getting it maybe? More likely a blip but I'll enjoy while it lasts. Hope everyone's enjoying the sun. If it rains tmw blame me as it's my day off
    Living half in debt, half in denial
    At the bottom of the hole....pass the rope and hoist me up!!
  • mismatch
    mismatch Posts: 90 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Ynab dl'd yesterday.now to play and scare myself lol
    Living half in debt, half in denial
    At the bottom of the hole....pass the rope and hoist me up!!
  • mismatch
    mismatch Posts: 90 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Well ynab is addictive and slightly scary lol gonna watch dome of their tutorials later make sure I'm doing it right fir now tho must face the house chores, so much for day off work lol
    To do today
    Food shopping
    Pet shopping
    Clean kitchen
    Hoover house
    Mop downstairs
    Ynab tutorials

    Wish me luck as I'm currently sat with a cuppa and kindle not wanting to move lol
    Living half in debt, half in denial
    At the bottom of the hole....pass the rope and hoist me up!!
  • apple_muncher
    apple_muncher Posts: 15,291 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Name Dropper
    I've just read your posts from the start and you already seemed a transformed poster! You have more focus, positivity, and determination. Well done on actually starting your diary and keeping on with it. :T

    I've heard ynab is addictive! Glad it's helpful. I'll bet you blast through the chores so that you can get back to it!

    Keep going!
    NST March lion #8; NSD ; MFW9/3/23 Whoop Whoop!!!
  • Welcome to the forums, I was going to suggest YNAB but I see you've already found it ;) good luck! If you need any help with it StressedSteph is a bit of a fanatic (her diary is on the DFW forum too I didn't get it but am wanting to try again and I will actually watch the tutorials this time :o as i've heard it is brilliant! xx
    Mortgage Overpayments 2024/25 - September-December, £152.46. J- £103.27, F- £115, M- £91.50, A- £100, M- £200, J- £200. J- £200. A-£200, S- £221.34. O-£200
    Total- £1783.67
    Goal pay off 1% of current mortgage in 1 year. £1650
    EF- £642.41/500
  • Another vote here for YNAB. It's transformed how I feel about money and debt. Having your LBM is one thing, but having YNAB to help you back to solvency and sanity is something else.

    All the videos on the site are really worth watching. They are easy to understand even if spreadsheets scare the hell out of you. And the blogs there are good too - some great money saving tips.

    It is addictive too, and the reports are great fun. My favourite is the net worth report - watch that line go up and up and think of all the things you can use that chunk of income that's paying off the debt for when it's above zero. In the past I would have thought "great, I can stop worrying about it then," but having discovered the joys (yep, joys) of budgeting and planning for stuff, I'm actually looking forward to putting it towards other goals like investing to watch it grow.

    I started the year with £18,300 of debt. Now at £15,731 and counting. Thinking about extra income streams to cut it quicker!

    As I'm a new user it's not letting me include an image but you can see my progress here: imgur.com/2FEDVCh (copy and paste the link into a browser)
  • Oh and good luck with everything! Facing up to reality is a huge, scary step and the beginning of all the good (if hard) things that come after it. x
  • mismatch
    mismatch Posts: 90 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Thanks guys. Managed the chores although shopping took forever bloody half term I'd forgotten about :( never mind.
    Made it thru 3/4 of the start up ynab tutorial and found stuff I was doing wrong already oops!!! But looks healthier now I've made those changes. Hopefully fit in rest of that and next 1 tmw after work
    Huge well done on the money I've paid off so far thriftblah
    And dfw321 thanks for the suggestions I'll check out stephs diary
    Now to have a little relax :)
    Living half in debt, half in denial
    At the bottom of the hole....pass the rope and hoist me up!!
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