talk me down please

mellymoo74

K
Gotta interview do I go and potentially leave current job
Or
Try and fix current job for the first time in my life

Archergirl

No harm in going to the interview, you may or may not get the job. Even if you do get offered it you can still decline it. (If you give in your notice, they may try to keep you where you are) Just don't rush into anything, How do you manage to attract such !!!!***es?lol
Some people just like to make others unhappy
I am glad that you are happy in your new home, don't let this upset you xx

mellymoo74

I don't know lol

Just lucky I guess.

pollyanna_26

If you feel the job would be a good fit for you it's worth having an interview to see how you feel.
I remember you mentioning that woman at the beginning of May. She sounds downright toxic . Your husband , pets and your life is none of her business.


I got the feeling she may be a recent employee so no idea where her attitude is coming from . Unless she's in the position to hire and fire it would be easier to ignore her. However if your raising the issue with management isn't working her connection to the CEO is probably a factor.


You're working hard to improve your physical and mental health now your husband is making progress and your lives are happier and much more settled . I think it's worth seeing what the job entails . You don't need toxic in your life .


Meanwhile are Pickles and Smiler still an item or has Kevin seen him off?
pollyx

mellymoo74

I shall get some pics uploaded

It started in Jan Pol, I just couldn't stand it any more once the move happened

pollyanna_26

That's a long time to put up with her no wonder you've been so low . Your decision if you want to try for the other job and see how things go. I can never understand how people can be so nasty. Years ago a "friend" told me I'd be better putting youngest away somewhere and getting on with my life! I walked away and never spoke to her again. I swear some people are on another planet.
pollyx

mellymoo74

Guess who hasn't been paid

pollyanna_26

I'm not at home at the moment so a quick post. Assuming you have a contract have you checked your paid sick leave allowance to see if you are within the period agreed?



I don't know if it's a case it hasn't gone into the bank or work has told you no pay is due now so unable to advise until the situation is clearer. I'll catch up later . Try not to worry love.
pollyx

pollyanna_26

Hope you're ok Melly and managed to sort out the pay issue. I wasn't sure if you meant Statutory sick pay or if your employer have their own scheme. If you've applied for the other job I hope things work out. There's nothing worse than working with someone who wants to make your life a misery.
pollyx

mellymoo74

Sorry i went awol
Its looking up I start Monday new place so only a couple of weeks no money