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neighbour harrassment or not?

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  • aileth
    aileth Posts: 2,822 Forumite
    Oh yes most definitely harassment. When it is raining heavily or super cold, make sure you open all your windows and if they copy you they are definitely 'out to get you.'

    To make doubly sure, I'd also ring the RSPCA as well to report her for cruelty for not letting her cat out to play with your cat. Show her you really mean business.
  • pelirocco
    pelirocco Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    The time you really have to worry is when they start opening your windows
    Vuja De - the feeling you'll be here later
  • hi yes ive also done that random thing ,then they copy thats what im refairing to does anyone else have this ?seems has lots have disputes with neighbours .

    thanks
  • hi if there haveing blinds open at night pulled up with lights on ,is this invadeing my privacy .Another thing when i pull up in the car someone opens window and looks through ? also im a attractive woman ,some people cant live near that when they have a partner do you get me?
  • shegirl
    shegirl Posts: 10,107 Forumite
    hi So this is deffinatly not harrasment ? The other thing is pulled up in the car the other evening ,and she came out and said your not playing to her cat after me letting my cat out.Also they have there blinds open at night there always on the window never shut there blinds,and then last night they raised there blind up while i was gardening ..feel like they have a problem or is it me how would you deal with this ?

    thanks

    Was your cat hurt by this? It may not be harrassment but that is most definitely bullying.

    I hope you have taught your own puss-y to be open and welcoming to everyone
    If women are birds and freedom is flight are trapped women Dodos?
  • itsanne
    itsanne Posts: 5,001 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    hi if there haveing blinds open at night pulled up with lights on ,is this invadeing my privacy .Another thing when i pull up in the car someone opens window and looks through ?

    Is that not more like invading their own privacy? Lights on and blinds open means everyone can see what they're doing :eek:!

    Are you sure they're not doggy as well as cat people?
    . . .I did not speak out

    Then they came for me
    And there was no one left
    To speak out for me..

    Martin Niemoller
  • mayfair1985
    mayfair1985 Posts: 496 Forumite
    I actually have no words. This has made me :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Seriously though, if you are being serious, I think you need to see someone.
  • FatVonD
    FatVonD Posts: 5,315 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    Was it through the square window or the round window?
    Make £25 a day in April £0/£750 (March £584, February £602, January £883.66)

    December £361.54, November £322.28, October £288.52, September £374.30, August £223.95, July £71.45, June £251.22, May£119.33, April £236.24, March £106.74, Feb £40.99, Jan £98.54) Total for 2017 - £2,495.10
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    hi if there haveing blinds open at night pulled up with lights on ,is this invadeing my privacy .Another thing when i pull up in the car someone opens window and looks through ? also im a attractive woman ,some people cant live near that when they have a partner do you get me?

    Do you have coloured lights in your window?
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • jumperjohn
    jumperjohn Posts: 180 Forumite
    What does your cat think about all of this?
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