neighbour harrassment or not?

shirley6933

hello everyone .I moved into a house in january ,i didnt think anything of it at the begining i have a house opposite well ive been in 2 months now but cant help but notice ,everytime i open a window the opposite house open the exact same window this happens dailly and im getting a bit freaked out with it,is this normal ?:mad:

BitterAndTwisted

No, it isn't normal but it's not harassment either.

I'd be minded to decide not to notice what they do as they obviously have too much time on their hands. Or you do.

Gra76

Maybe the neighbour opposite has an OCD issue... Can't imagine it being any worse than that!

GBNI

April Fools is only up until 12...

shegirl

I'm guessing you do it approx the same time every day.Like most people,including your neighbours...

Is it not coincidence?Or do you think they spend all day Sat watching you out the window with a pair of binoculars that can see through things nothing else can,know exactly what window you are stood at/touching the handle of and copy you for a laugh?!

Think about the answer seriously.

ilikewatch

Are you sure that it is a house opposite you, and not a huge mirror?

WestonDave

Is it harassment - Shirley not!


Probably more likely there is one particular window in both houses that is an obvious one for you both to want to open so both of you end up opening the same one!

shirley6933

hi So this is deffinatly not harrasment ? The other thing is pulled up in the car the other evening ,and she came out and said your not playing to her cat after me letting my cat out.Also they have there blinds open at night there always on the window never shut there blinds,and then last night they raised there blind up while i was gardening ..feel like they have a problem or is it me how would you deal with this ?

thanks

browneyedbazzi

Even if they were watching out of their window to see what you do and copying which window to open, it wouldn't be harassment. It's the sort of thing that you should be able to easily ignore...it'll only bother you if you focus on it and let it bother you (which you really shouldn't!!).

somethingcorporate

Will nobody think of the [STRIKE]children[/STRIKE] cats?

shirley6933

hiya im wondering if its because neighbours want it all to them selfs sometimes and they kind of think with someone younger liveing there they feel threatened could that be it ?